Official Relationship Thread: The Good, the Bad and the Ugly

[Anita18]

How would you know I don't have interests in men unless you've been stalking me yourself?

Interest in men =/= "love life."

Unless you think I really started my love life back in second grade (with my first unrequited crush) instead of starting my love life in college when I had my first actual relationship where we considered ourselves bf/gf.

 

[knowsbleed]

Her definition of "love life" could be different than your's...

... or the dictionary's.

 

[Erzengel]

Congratulations.

Welcome to 95% of the dating world.

 

[knowsbleed]

as precise as herpes.

 

[DarkSovereignty]

yes knowsbleed, how dare you bud in on their private conversation that happens to be on a public forum. shame for shame

 

[Anita18]

NOBODY INVITED YOU.

 

[Erzengel]

Is this a precise calculation?

Well I could have rounded it to the thousandth place.

But in all seriousness, there seems to be more geek stuff being mainstream (Game of Thrones, Harry Potter, LOTR, Comic movies/TV etc.), and I think you're likely to find someone who may be a fan of one of those franchises. Not necessarily, hard core fans.

But, in terms of reading comic books, cosplaying, convention going, video gamer is still rare.

Then again, it's okay not to have different interests then someone you're dating. It helps to have things in common but it doesn't necessarily make it a deal breaker.

 

[knowsbleed]

fine, i know when I'm not wanted! *takes ball and leaves*

 

[knowsbleed]

games of thrones is geek stuff??

 

[Erzengel]

More fantasy.....but you know what I'm coming from.

 

[DarkSovereignty]

NOBODY INVITED YOU.

but I received a box full of doves, and a plush kangaroo with an invitation in it's mouth. have I been the subject of some cruel high school style prank?

 

[The Guard]

I really think it is impossible to find an attractive girl that appreciates nerdy things like comic books and scifi.

That depends on what your definition of "appreciates" is.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Or maybe it means nothing and she'll accept a request from anyone. As long as I recognize the person's name from some time in my life, I'll accept it.

Pretty much this.

But if a girl sends me the friend request? Well obviously she wants the D.

 

[obin_gam]

Been on two dates and we're hitting it off really well. Thats the good part. The bad part is that she's going back home to her horse and family when her studies are finished at the end of january. And it's about 500 miles from here. I said (and I mean it too) I'd rather be with her this short time, than not be with her at all.

I dont really know what to do now, damn stupid timing

 

[Erzengel]

2 months is not a long time in a grand scheme of things. Especially after that 2 months time to be separated by 8 hours of driving.

2 months is not a lot of time to even really get to know somebody let alone try and consider a LD relationship.

While I'm sure in your head you rather have the 2 months then nothing, it's not going to hurt any less when she goes but maybe you're benefit by having it only be a couple of months instead of longer.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

It smells like I f*****ed someone, but I haven't done that today.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Lovely...

 

[knowsbleed]

You probably did and just forgot. Happens to me sometimes.

 

[Anubis]

Did you shower today?

Could be the boys need a bath.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Oh my god I have the biggest crush on a guy at my new job.

I am never usually attracted to someone straight of the bat, but this guy is so gorgeous I just wanna cry. And he has one of those awesome twinkly smiles. And I just found out he plays the guitar.

Swoon

 

[L.A.]

I need a woman opinion about my situation. So I started talking to this girl that I met on a dating site. We exchange numbers and Skype. I found her to be very cute and funny and she told me she feels the same. We talk 2-4 hours a day for almost two weeks. Last Wednesday she told me she was sick and I haven't heard from her since? I called and text numerous times a day. I've gotten no reply. Some of my friends have said this might be her testing me to see if I'm serious. Idk what to make of it. For all I know she can be dead or simply done with me. Which is weird we never had any fights or disagreement. Our first date was Suppose to be in Disneyland next week

 

[Erzengel]

I usually have a 2-3 strike rule when it comes to contacting someone. You can only put your ball, no pun intended into someone's court so many times.

 

[Anita18]

First date at Disneyland sounds pretty serious. It's possible that she might have gotten cold feet. But in general, I agree with Erz. There's only so many chances you can give someone before you have to admit that they really aren't that into you.

 

[Anubis]

Or she's dead.

 

[L.A.]

First date at Disneyland sounds pretty serious. It's possible that she might have gotten cold feet. But in general, I agree with Erz. There's only so many chances you can give someone before you have to admit that they really aren't that into you.

Yes I thought it was serious. She a vacation planner for Disneyland. It was her idea to go to Disneyland. Hell it was her who message me, asked for my number, called me everyday, Skype me. I'm so confused.