They were in love, she just could not be with him when he was Batman. You're not honestly trying to say that because of the absence of a costume, her loving feelings are going to magically turn back on.
Yes I am, and it happens in real life all the time. I know of many instances when a couple is in love, and perhaps one of partners falls into addiction(alcoholism, heroin, etc), and they will fall out of love and have to separate. While both parties may still love each other, they're not necessarily
in love. Now, if the person happens to break their addiction, there is a chance that they can come to terms with it, and fall back in love once again.
Like I said, you don't just switch your feelings on and off because of the presence or absence of a mask. Rachel loved Bruce. She just couldn't be with him while he was Batman.
I always thought that was pretty obvious....
Now you're contradicting yourself. If you knew they loved each other since they were kids, then how was it "random" that they were supposedly in love at the end of Begins? I know, and I've said that from the start. You just said it felt random that they were in love with each other at the end of Begins, and that wasn't true, because Rachel even says she
loved Bruce, and still can in the future, but for the time being, she can't if he's Batman. And furthermore, it wasn't random at all, because all of Begins showed that both Bruce and Rachel have always loved each other. Again, they do love each other, but they're not both
in love with each other. (Bruce is, Rachel isn't)