Logan's Runt
Runtmuffin
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He said that he hits women because they stay with him.
I'm sure I have some wisdom to throw in on it, but I mean I've said it all before...so...I really just don't care anymore.Its the subject's fault for sticking around.
I kinda agree with Turtle too. I'm not condoning it - and my heart goes out to anyone who does receive physical abuse from their respective other.. but some people love to be a victim - it gives them a certain power that they need.
You mean power/control for the person who is abusing right?
Yeah those people suck and sometimes the only way to stop them is to hit back. It would be nice if you could talk those people down and maybe somepeople can but still got to hit them back.
Woman abusing men is common too you know.
But can the man hit a woman to defend him self?
No. I do agree with that, though, but that's not what I was saying.
I can understand why you thought that because of the use of the word 'power' in my previous post. Maybe it was the wrong word to use - or not exactly wrong, but not being very truthful.
I just meant that some victims of an abusive relationship, and I do only mean SOME, have a need for the feeling they have of being a victim - almost martyrdom, in a way. I'm sure they don't actually like the abuse itself, but more the role it gives them.
And yes I am very aware that abuse works both ways. I have in fact been careful to make my my posts non-gender specific
About men hitting back.. It should be done with absolute discretion. Only if need be - there are some pretty big girls out there lol. But I would truly hate to be put in that position.
I read you - if push came to shove I would smack a woman if she posed a threat to my health.
I think a man should be able to restrain a women from hurting him, when it comes to fists or lightweight objects, rather than hitting her ... but if she pulls a gun or a metal baseball bat on the guy, then she deserves to get knocked the **** out
Yes if that line is crossed then the gloves are off.
Ha! If it came to that kinda stuff, my pants would be off too. Because I'd defecate in them lol
A woman with a gun, brrrrrr
You've been over the pond too much if you're familiar with guns
Ok
piow piow
You're spreading yourself too thin Mistah Luthor
Nice guys normally do
See how I got back on topic there?
No?