Confession is good for the Hype. - - Part 11

[Ultimatehero]

The girl I'll hopefully start things with has no idea that I think some guys are hot nor will I think she'll ever know. Nor would I ever tell any girlfriends for that matter.

 

[Anita18]

The girl I'll hopefully start things with has no idea that I think some guys are hot nor will I think she'll ever know. Nor would I ever tell any girlfriends for that matter.

You never know, man. My husband looks like he'd be gay (I know, I know, that's stereotyping but it totally explains why other guys kept staring at him with googly eyes when we walked through the Castro District), and I keep joking that if a hot guy made a pass at him, we should go for the threesome. I wouldn't complain!

I'm not sure why the idea of another man doesn't bother me as much as another woman. I guess it's like, I can't have failed a woman test on my part, if the other person has an organ that doesn't naturally come with my sex.

Plus I have the hots for guys, not chicks....

 

[Ultimatehero]

The thing I've found is that, I'm not blaming anyone, because some gay guys come out as bi first as a stepping stone to telling someone that they're gay - many people now don't believe that we are bi, or at least that men are bi, when we actually are leading our potential partners into falsely suspecting that we're gay.

Also while there are exceptions to it, I've typically found that many girls are scared of getting into a relationship with a bi man due to the fear that we'd leave them for another guy. And leaving for the same sex scares them more than leaving them for the opposite sex. And while there are gay guys who fear bi guys will leave them for the opposite sex and hesitate in that manner, I've found that more guys are open and cool with it. Which I think might be because we are both outside of the norm of looking at things.

So, to them I'm like James Franco - I support the LGBT community, I might make a LGBT film at some point and know a lot about LGBT culture but - I'm not gay. Interesting thing about being bi - nobody asks you if you're bi. They don't think that. So someone asking you if you're gay - you say no and you're telling them the truth lol. I think that's partly how Franco is able to keep saying he's straight much in the same manner that James Dean used to do. If she asks me what I think of a guy or if I could ever swing that way, I'd say maybe. But if she asks me if I'm gay, well I'm not and that's not lying to her. Just using the ol' Hollywood secret of navigating around it.

 

[SpideyVille]

He wore the costume during graduation? There's definitely something wrong there. Sometimes I'd rather be Spider-man , but that's just not how to deal with a situation.

Yup, he's even created his own meme.

Spoiler

The thing that's worse to me is that he not only tries to be Spider-Man, but he tries to look like Andrew Garfield. He started riding a skateboard after he saw ASM, and he says things like "Mother Hubbard!" and tries to wise crack on everyone and everything. There was also a play that he was in where he grew a goatee and wore a suit and acted like he was Tony Stark. To me, it all just comes off as some big cry for attention, since a lot of people made him a outcast when they found out his girlfriend broke up with him because he cheated on her. Like I said, he blamed that on trying to be like his best friend who was known for sleeping around.

 

[bullets]

Yup, he's even created his own meme.

Spoiler

The thing that's worse to me is that he not only tries to be Spider-Man, but he tries to look like Andrew Garfield. He started riding a skateboard after he saw ASM, and he says things like "Mother Hubbard!" and tries to wise crack on everyone and everything. There was also a play that he was in where he grew a goatee and wore a suit and acted like he was Tony Stark. To me, it all just comes off as some big cry for attention, since a lot of people made him a outcast when they found out his girlfriend broke up with him because he cheated on her. Like I said, he blamed that on trying to be like his best friend who was known for sleeping around.

I think he's trying to gain people's acceptance by distracting them with something else. Not sure how well that's going to work out because you can't always hide behind a mask in the real world. Hopefully people will look past what he did , but he needs to accept the blame instead of pushing it onto some else. We all make mistakes and sooner or later you have to own up to them.

 

[SpideyVille]

I think he's trying to gain people's acceptance by distracting them with something else. Not sure how well that's going to work out because you can't always hide behind a mask in the real world. Hopefully people will look past what he did , but he needs to accept the blame instead of pushing it onto some else. We all make mistakes and sooner or later you have to own up to them.

Well they broke up last summer and ironically he came to me for help because he knew how good I was at keeping myself from falling under the influence of a group, since we were both part of a big theater club. And I think he's on better terms with his ex and everyone else now. But, and I even called him out on this a few months ago, ever since he got the costume for Halloween, he's seemed to take on that identity full time, and it really angers me because I feel like I wasted the whole summer trying to pick him back up and build him up in a time where he felt the world was against him. Everyone put a lot of blame on him, but I looked past it all and just tried to be there for him. But now I'm the one who needs someone to be there for me and he's just been more concerned with what his ex is doing and trying to fit in with everyone else as opposed to just being himself.

 

[ComicChick]

i confess i really need a haircut

 

[Spider-Aziz]

Yeah, with the way things have been, and how my interests have been changing, I almost feel like I wasted my time in college doing art since I most likely won't be using that for a career at all. At this point it seems like its just a hobby.

A hobby is better than those years being a waste

I confess I have a friend who has been dressing up as Spider-Man ever since he got the costume for Halloween and it makes me wonder if there's really something wrong with him., especially since he wore the costume today at his graduation. I had a talk with him last summer because his girlfriend broke up with him and he blamed it on the fact that he was trying to be someone else.

This fella needs a serious heart to heart talk

 

[jonathancrane]

Since Paul Thomas Anderson acquired the rights to Thomas Pynchon's novel Inherent Vice, I have been nervous. I discovered Pynchon when I was nine years old, when I picked up my mother's copy of The Crying of Lot 49, along with the rest of the textbooks for her college English class. Since then, Pynchon has risen to become my favorite author. If I can write a novel a tenth as good as his before I leave this rock, I will consider myself successful.

In addition to enjoying and finding inspiration in his fiction, I have also enjoyed Pynchon's anonymity; aside from his voice (thanks to the Simpsons,) I have no idea what he looks like. The fact that he has been invisible for all of these years pleases me to no end.

However, with the Inherent Vice film on the way, I am terrified the press will somehow acquire a photograph or video of him, and I will end up seeing it. The idea of Thomas Pynchon is a wonderful one: being an author extraordinaire and invisible, as well. It would be completely devastating to me if I had it ruined because of someone's insensitivity...this would be the case where unseeing something would beneficial.

Hence, I am nervous, because I do not want this paradigm compromised.

 

[AnneFan]

I confess I've been listening to Confessions on a Dancefloor.

 

[Anubis]

Well, he's pretty damn ugly.

 

[Brain Damage]

I confess I don't like Cheeze-its. At all.

 

[Lily Adler]

i confess i really need a haircut

Me too!

Also I confess I have a major crush on Mike Galanos the yummy news anchor on HLN.

I confess that I actually prefer older men.

 

[Anubis]

Like, he's gotta be careful not to sit on his balls old or midlife crisis, buy a fancy new car to bang some young chick old?

 

[SpideyVille]

I confess that sometimes I don't even feel like a real artist. There are so many other people out there who may not even have a lot of talent, but still work so much harder and are much more dedicated with what they do and I just wish that I could have that same dedication and motivation.

 

[ComicChick]

Me too!

Also I confess I have a major crush on Mike Galanos the yummy news anchor on HLN.

I confess that I actually prefer older men.

we confess we need you back on skype

 

[bullets]

I confess to facebook stalking my old high school classmates. I just found out one of them died earlier this month. I know one had a brain hemorrhage not too long ago and can't seem to find out what happened to this other guy. I hated both of them , but it's still kind of saddens me. They were nice to other people apparently. I also find it strange how old some of them look compared to me. In some cases they look closer to forty than thirty.

 

[GENERAL RAAM582]

I can't wait to stalk people I knew from HS on Facebook, or whatever popular social-network that will be available in 20 years.

 

[SpideyVille]

I'm still "friends" with a lot of people from my high school on Facebook and I remember hearing that Facebook really ruined high school reunions because now you can keep up with certain changes from people. Like I recently went to a 5 year reunion thing and for the most part, everyone looked the same. Some people definitely got fatter and had beer bellies, while other people, like girls, finally learned how to use make-up and looked attractive. But the real test will be in another 5 years when people actually start having their own lives and families. That's when the biggest changes happen.

 

[Spider-Aziz]

I don't like going to the barber shop, don't like scissors near my face

 

[sabetoonth]

I confess to facebook stalking my old high school classmates. I just found out one of them died earlier this month. I know one had a brain hemorrhage not too long ago and can't seem to find out what happened to this other guy. I hated both of them , but it's still kind of saddens me. They were nice to other people apparently. I also find it strange how old some of them look compared to me. In some cases they look closer to forty than thirty.

Same, though its not quite forty as much as thirty, seeing as we only graduated in 2011. But finding them again and then seeing the changes that have gone on are kinda...enlightening? One of my old classmates moved o Illinois, got married, and last I heard she's pregnant. The rest aren't really doing anything. Some look nothing like they did at school

I confess that sometimes I don't even feel like a real artist. There are so many other people out there who may not even have a lot of talent, but still work so much harder and are much more dedicated with what they do and I just wish that I could have that same dedication and motivation.

You are not alone in that, man

 

[ComicChick]

i confess my heel is bothering me so much i didn't go to work today

 

[Spider-Aziz]

i confess my heel is bothering me so much i didn't go to work today

I pray you get well soon neighbor

 

[ComicChick]

thank you.

i confess i finally took a self portrait that i don't hate

 

[Marx]

I confess that I am incredibly tired of having to worry and stress over money.