The Relationship Thread and the Kingdom of the Crystal Advice

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Wow you no like me?

At least not the way you view romantic relationships, and your views on what makes an "alpha male"

 

[enterthemadness]

Yeah it's bizarre. I mean, sure it might have had other stuff in it, but I think it's just that my body REALLY doesn't like rushing.

The other weekend I did a bomb of mdma which was a really stupid idea. Usually I just put a bit on my finger and straight into my mouth. That way I can see that i'm only taking as much as I can handle... if I want more later I can always have it. But this time I was offered an already wrapped amount and just took it... I came up, threw up 6 times and then slept for the next 8 hours. Luckily I was in my flat with friends, so they all stayed and just hung out till I was better.

I'm just not great with drugs. Except ketamine I really do seem to agree with ketamine. Though I will say, a few of my friends don't get on with it... they just don't like the way it makes them feel.

Oh, and from the outside, ketamine is seriously scary when you do a lot. I mean, people look messed up, or if their in a k-hole, they look dead. Completely not moving, eyes blankly staring, dead.



Coke does pretty much nothing for me. I'll take it at a party if it's offered, because it does stimulate you a little bit... but I couldn't put my finger on what it does that is worth paying any money for.

On the plus side, it's another drug thats never given me a hangover though.

I am shocked young lady. Shocked.

but it sounds like you know how to paaaaaarty.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

Never tried ketamine.

 

[Anita18]

I love how I got called a 'White Knight' then a page later I'm talking about all the f***ed up sh** I've done.

I've smoked with Too $hort and the guy from the Men's Wearhouse Commercials. The latter is a MAJOR stoner btw.

LOL I knew it!

He stole some dude's chick WHILE he was in the room. Dude's a pimp.

What can I say? Chicks dig guys in suits.

Well I edited my post cuz I felt after posting it that I was a bit out of line, but so much for that now lol.

But it's just that male machismo that you touched on that SuperMike responded to that really put me off, and the attitude that any guy who disagrees with his ways is a "white knight". He's used that term on a few occasions now.

You have to approach SuperMike differently. He even said my bf had some alpha male tendencies, which makes me . I could very easily walk all over my bf if I wanted to, but I don't because I respect him. But he obviously doesn't go out of his way to be a jerk OR a pansy who needs reassurance every 5 minutes.

As I've pointed out before, you probably think SuperMike is a chest-thumping Neanderthal while he thinks we're all self-doubting pansies and gives advice with that approach.

WOW . . . that is really strange; I've never heard of anyone having such a strong negative reaction to ecstacy . . . EVER; are you sure it was ecstacy? maybe someone lied to you . . .

Yeah see, ANOTHER reason why I've never tried anything. Who knows what you're taking unless you buy it direct or make it yourself?

That and drugs are expensive and I'm CHEAP.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

I am shocked young lady. Shocked.

but it sounds like you know how to paaaaaarty.

I'm from England... it's a whole different kind of partying over here

Yeah see, ANOTHER reason why I've never tried anything. Who knows what you're taking unless you buy it direct or make it yourself?

That and drugs are expensive and I'm CHEAP.

Some ore expensive. Some are dirt cheap.

Ecstacy pills were about £2.50 over here last time I seen them about (a pint of beer is about £3.00), and a gram of speed is £10... you can see why a lot of people opt for it rather than just getting drunk.

 

[foolsgardens]

Hello everybody,

My post has to link with this topic but i can't create a topic.
I'm a foreigner student and to finish my business school I have to write a memoir.
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Thanks a lot,

Foolsgardens

 

[DV8]

I'm from England... it's a whole different kind of partying over here



Some ore expensive. Some are dirt cheap.

Ecstacy pills were about £2.50 over here last time I seen them about (a pint of beer is about £3.00), and a gram of speed is £10... you can see why a lot of people opt for it rather than just getting drunk.

yeah ummmm . . . I'm gonna need to party with YOU! LOL . . . it's tough to find good clean ecstacy here and it's one of my favorite drugs . . . I've also never taken "Special K"; not something that really appeals to my sensibilities but I guess I'd try it once

 

[Erzengel]

I personally don't care what you people do, but you might want to cut the chatter on this. I've seen threads closed before on this topic when it gets this specific. We can't even talk about sex in a clinical sense because that's too risque for here.

 

[Hound55]

Can we draw risque diagrams..?

 

[Spidey-Bat]

So, yesterday I was insanely bored all day. My friends I normally chat with were all incommunicado for various reasons. So last night around 10, I see the girl I'm interested in on Facebook and decide I'll try talking to her. I know, not the greatest means of communication but I don't have her number so it was the best option.

We end up having a conversation for almost 3 hours. We talked about video games, I asked questions about her pet rats and snakes, and a little about her job. Towards the end I mentioned that I got accepted into the college she's going to for grad school and ask if she could show me around the area. She waited a bit to reply and made some excuses not to like she doesn't really know the campus I'd be at (they're only a couple blocks apart so still in the same area), then would probably be living elsewhere (I said I'd go before the end of the semester though). I tried to keep it funny by saying I need to know where all the college kids hang out so I know to avoid them since I can't hang out with them once I'm a grad student. Then she said she was going to bed and would talk to me later about it, I just said see ya.

Now, my 2 friends say she is horrible at making plans to do stuff even with them, so I'm not really surprised. And I'm interpreting the "ttyl about this" as "I hope you forget to ask me again." I do have a genuine interest in being shown the area since the school is probably my top choice. It also gives me the opportunity to have some one-on-one time with her since we do have stuff we can talk about. My other 2 friends wouldn't shut the hell up about high school when the 4 of us were out this weekend and neither of them are into any video games. One of them laughed when I said we talked about it, he said it was a bad idea. I told him that I never brought up any games, she would and then I'd ask if she's played them or her thoughts and I also told him it's stupid to avoid a common interest with someone just because it's video games. Why should we try to ******** an interest in something like music just because other people do?

It was probably a little premature to ask this but I did on the rare chance she said we could do it this week (we're both on break, I have nothing to do and she's only hanging at her apartment with just 1 roommate she doesn't like).

As I said, I do want to try to get her to show me around since the school is one of my top choices and I'd like to have a chance to talk to her about the stuff since high school, not from it. I figured I will wait until next Thursday and ask just once more. I obviously don't want to be a pest but I don't want to back down after just one try. If she still resists, I'll turn it into us and our friends going down there and doing something so it's now a group thing.

 

[Erzengel]

Can we draw risque diagrams..?

Draw me like one of your french girls.

 

[Erzengel]

It was probably a little premature to ask this but I did on the rare chance she said we could do it this week (we're both on break, I have nothing to do and she's only hanging at her apartment with just 1 roommate she doesn't like).

Not necessarily premature BUT you are planning something WAY to into the future.

You should have focused on the here and now or at the latest this weekend.

"Hey, give me your number, and I'll call you some time." OR "Here's my number so you can text, call, etc."

"What are you doing this weekend?"

As I said, I do want to try to get her to show me around since the school is one of my top choices and I'd like to have a chance to talk to her about the stuff since high school, not from it. I figured I will wait until next Thursday and ask just once more. I obviously don't want to be a pest but I don't want to back down after just one try. If she still resists, I'll turn it into us and our friends going down there and doing something so it's now a group thing.

This is just me personally, but I found when you start saying, next Thursday, I'll do this, or I'll wait until next, next weekend, more often times than not things don't go according to plan.

Granted when you first asked her to show you around, it didn't at all sound like a date, but she didn't even feign interest or even if she wanted to lie about it and say sure I can do that and then never take you up on it.

The next time you talk to her, just ask her out. If she is at all interested, which you said she asked about you previously, then she shouldn't wuss out.

 

[DV8]

yeah Spidey Bat . . . just listen to what Erz said . . . I think you're overthinking this too much; why are you waiting until next Thursday to ask her again? PS, don't answer that . . . anyway, go with the flow and don't do so much planning

 

[DV8]

I personally don't care what you people do, but you might want to cut the chatter on this. I've seen threads closed before on this topic when it gets this specific. We can't even talk about sex in a clinical sense because that's too risque for here.

most of this conversation is all my fault . . . no, but really it kinda is

 

[Spidey-Bat]

Not necessarily premature BUT you are planning something WAY to into the future.

You should have focused on the here and now or at the latest this weekend.

"Hey, give me your number, and I'll call you some time." OR "Here's my number so you can text, call, etc."

"What are you doing this weekend?"

I never said when I wanted to do it. I intentionally left it open ended, I didn't want to come out strong and say "Hey, let's do it this week." I know she works, too. I'm passive when it comes to making plans with people since I'm really flexible and I know other people may not be. I'm new at this game so I know this will have to change when it comes to women (especially this one it seems).

This is just me personally, but I found when you start saying, next Thursday, I'll do this, or I'll wait until next, next weekend, more often times than not things don't go according to plan.

I'm just waiting for an opportunity later in the week to have some stuff to discuss like how her first week back was. I don't want to ask her today or tomorrow since it seems too desperate but I don't want to wait too long.

Granted when you first asked her to show you around, it didn't at all sound like a date, but she didn't even feign interest or even if she wanted to lie about it and say sure I can do that and then never take you up on it.

The next time you talk to her, just ask her out. If she is at all interested, which you said she asked about you previously, then she shouldn't wuss out.

I'm very tempted to just say, "Look, I asked you because while I do have a genuine interest in going to the school and seeing it, I'd like to have an opportunity to talk with you and catch up. We didn't really have that chance when we were with our friends and I hate talking by texts and IMs since it's impersonal."

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

I personally don't care what you people do, but you might want to cut the chatter on this. I've seen threads closed before on this topic when it gets this specific. We can't even talk about sex in a clinical sense because that's too risque for here.

Translation: watch out because this website forum is uber prudish.

 

[DV8]

I never said when I wanted to do it. I intentionally left it open ended, I didn't want to come out strong and say "Hey, let's do it this week." I know she works, too. I'm passive when it comes to making plans with people since I'm really flexible and I know other people may not be. I'm new at this game so I know this will have to change when it comes to women (especially this one it seems).

you don't want to be too passive, but you also don't want to be pushy; you should never wait too long to plan on making plans though; you have to strike quickly and smoothly . . . you could've asked her what she's doing this weekend and if she was busy, she was busy; no biggie

I'm just waiting for an opportunity later in the week to have some stuff to discuss like how her first week back was. I don't want to ask her today or tomorrow since it seems too desperate but I don't want to wait too long.

if you are worried about sounding desperate, you will; if you are taking control and showing interest, that is different; you also shouldn't arbitrarily wait around to plan on asking her out Lol that's just not natural; I understand what you're trying to do, but if you are FB friends, you can kind of make funny comments on her stats here and there, and when it seems natural, inbox or chat with her again; but do it soon

I'm very tempted to just say, "Look, I asked you because while I do have a genuine interest in going to the school and seeing it, I'd like to have an opportunity to talk with you and catch up. We didn't really have that chance when we were with our friends and I hate talking by texts and IMs since it's impersonal."

it almost seems like you're ready to apologize for wanting to see her Lol you are making it too complicated . . . it's almost like you WANT to get put into the friendzone . . . make sure that there is no mistake that you are interested in seeing her . . . even play on the fact that you are just using the whole "show me around" scenario to see her; make it fun/funny for her

 

[steintym]

Translation: watch out because this website forum is uber prudish.

We need an adult section ... although I can only imagine what that would be like.

 

[Anubis]

Basically Willard showing pictures of his penis to everybody.

 

[Erzengel]

How can one prove they are an adult on a messageboard?

 

[Anubis]

Honor system?

 

[DV8]

Basically Willard showing pictures of his penis to everybody.

I would also post pics of mine

How can one prove they are an adult on a messageboard?

by entering your birthday in a box that asks you to enter your birthday truthfully

 

[Anubis]

So you know, honor system.

 

[Erzengel]

In the gif thread, a girl falling down the hill and latter humped by a dog was deleted.

That's where we are when we can see a girl mounted by a dog because children might see it.

 

[SuperMike335!!]

There is an ongoing pattern in this thread. Spidey Bat and DV8 point it out nicely.

It is not just the two of them. This pattern seems to go on and on.

First, guy who has bad, so called "luck", with women comes on and puts up post about a current situation.

Generally it involves some sort of trying to cozy up to a girl in a plutonic way as a friend to play it safe in trying to get close to her, with hope at some point she will fall for him.

Then someone points out what he is doing wrong.

Then mr.badluck comes back on defending his actions, and why he is going to continue doing what he has been doing and why the advice does not apply to his situation.