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This is a continuation thread, the old thread is [split]487315[/split]
lol 2 years.Two years ago today, I met my fiance'. Yesterday was our daughter's first birthday.
My life, is wonderful.
That is all.
No, not at all. Some people don't like taking tons of selfies or couple pics. Some people like bare bones, stripped-down Facebook profiles. My brother is married and his profile pic on his Facebook has been like a pic of him in a suit for 5 years.
People invest too much thought in social media garbage these days.
Considering how disposable people are nowadays when it comes to relationships being an image on your babe's social media page is a must though.
When you can alter who sees what not saying *Insert Name* is my babe and hiding them from the public doesn't speak well.
My husband prefers me actually not talking about him AT ALL on social media. If you Google his name, you get his dad. I'm married on Facebook but there's no name linked. I try not to post anything too cutesy about our relationship because we consider that private and just between us. Plus it just seems like showing off and I don't use social media in that way - I use it for communication, and people fawning over hot/cute selfies makes me retch.Considering how disposable people are nowadays when it comes to relationships being an image on your babe's social media page is a must though. When you can alter who sees what not saying *Insert Name* is my babe and hiding them from the public doesn't speak well.
But I do find it curious that you continually post about not wanting to be thought of as an object, yet you want to be shown off as a prize when you are in a relationship.
I mean, there are other ways to show you're together. My husband was the first of both of us to refer to us as "boyfriend/girlfriend." He doesn't have a Facebook profile to show me off, but he wears his wedding ring all the time.
There's no necessity to show off your relationship status to near strangers if you don't want to.
I caved and downloaded Tinder. Its free so why not.
You're getting that wrong. I want to be shown off as a person, wearing no makeup on my face and a T-shirt and sweats with shades just like normal people do, in love having fun with the man I love, not being shoved into some dark nether region where it's like I don't exist at all. Seriously, how is it a wrong, embarrassing thing to want your friends and family seeing you smiling, happy, holding hands and laughing on a carousel or taking a selfie of yourself sitting at a picnic table with food in hand and giving the man you love a lingering kiss? These are the things that Scaredy Cat doesn't entertain, instead I feel like a prisoner in a dungeon not allowed to engage in normal behavior because he's too scared people are going to see. I can understand not posting pics of a sexual nature on the internet, but not posting pics of just doing normal things like holding hands? How is that unacceptable?
You are taking Facebook waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too seriously. You're going to screw up a good thing if you push this with him. But you've never listened to us before, so I don't have high hopes you'll avoid the mistake I see in your future.
My husband still isn't comfortable with PDA. He's affectionate in private. Is that not enough for you, it all has to be public on the internet to be legitimate?You're getting that wrong. I want to be shown off as a person, wearing no makeup on my face and a T-shirt and sweats with shades just like normal people do, in love having fun with the man I love, not being shoved into some dark nether region where it's like I don't exist at all. Seriously, how is it a wrong, embarrassing thing to want your friends and family seeing you smiling, happy, holding hands and laughing on a carousel or taking a selfie of yourself sitting at a picnic table with food in hand and giving the man you love a lingering kiss? These are the things that Scaredy Cat doesn't entertain, instead I feel like a prisoner in a dungeon not allowed to engage in normal behavior in public because he's too scared certain hateful people are going to see them. I can understand not posting pics of a sexually intimate nature on the internet, but not posting pics of just doing normal things like holding hands? How is that unacceptable?
But see, these things are not even in practice here so I guess it's time for me to move on to someone who will make the effort and just doesn't care how people will react.