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This is a continuation thread, the old thread is [split]481759[/split]
Still the exception.
The man is typically expected to initiate. Of course there are exceptions. But they are just that. Exceptions. As a man, you can't rely on a woman approaching you. Because despite these 2 exceptions, I've heard many more women say that they will never approach a man, if he doesn't approach her, she won't talk to him.
I agree, I think more women should ask men out.
But I mean, it is what it is. Women by and large don't have to go out and get it, in terms of relationships, because it comes to them.
Yea I hate to say it, but I find it a little desperate when women ask out men and I hate to say that because it takes a lot of courage for anyone to do it. Who cares what I think though? If you want it grab it.
That's the important part, IMO. Cause I would smack you if you did.Eh, call me old fashioned but I like to do the asking. I mean I wouldn't turn someone down cause they asked me.
Yes, I was desperate.Yea I hate to say it, but I find it a little desperate when women ask out men and I hate to say that because it takes a lot of courage for anyone to do it. Who cares what I think though? If you want it grab it.
So I am way behind, kept logging in and trying to respond to stuff but then got busy and lost the page
Just wanted to say to PacificBoy and Anita -
It's definitely not a FWB situation. From either end I don't think. There are things about it that haven't been present in previous FWB that'd i've had:
1. There is cute stuff. And by cute stuff I mean eskimo kisses, butterly kisses, blowing rasberries on the stomach, hair stroking, little kisses just because you can't stop.
2. I don't just want to see him when i'm horny. I want to see him all the time.
3. We both have verbally stated that we really like each other and given reasons why.
But it's not quite a relationship yet.
I think that comes when some is actually 'there for you' as in when you're feeling down they will cheer you up, if you need help they will help you etc. And i think it feels more like that if you actually start doing things 'as a couple' - even if it's showing up to events and things together, or making plans to do things just the two of you.
I am hoping it'll turn into that at some point... but I won't be devestated if it never does, because honestly this is probably the best 'relationship' i've had in my life so far, so it still feels like a step up .
And this is why most don''t
It's nothing bad on you last son, but a lot of guys get turned off by a girl doing the asking.
I agree, I think more women should ask men out.
But I mean, it is what it is. Women by and large don't have to go out and get it, in terms of relationships, because it comes to them.
Not entirely true. This is only anecdotal evidence, but I have never seen an "ugly" girl be able to sit back and wait for a guy to come to her, whereas less than average looking guys are somehow able to get girls. I think guys are more about looks and girls are more about personality, so the not so attractive girl is going to have a harder time.
But I don't think the below-average-looking guys are sitting back and waiting for women to come to them. The most amazing example of the looks disparity, he had THE most go-getter personality I had ever seen. (Which is saying a lot, given the high-achieving people I know and am related to!)Not entirely true. This is only anecdotal evidence, but I have never seen an "ugly" girl be able to sit back and wait for a guy to come to her, whereas less than average looking guys are somehow able to get girls. I think guys are more about looks and girls are more about personality, so the not so attractive girl is going to have a harder time.
Where do you live? State wise if City is too personal.
hi my name is aesop rocks and i am looking for love?
I'm in Florida.