The kinds of jobs you're looking for, where the bar is "my resume doesn't have any misspellings" doesn't give you room to grow, financially or career-wise. For those jobs, it doesn't matter if you have 9 years of experience (like it sounds you do), or 10 seconds of experience, which means there's no special reason for them to hire you.
Yeah, spiderman2, you have to take stock of your strengths and expand your options.
LMAO the closest thing my husband has done is send embarrassing selfies with hilarious facial expressions in them. He's too paranoid to send dick pics.So my wife is meeting up with her friend and this woman she met on vacation later this week. Both her and my wife's friend are single, great jobs, highly attractive and I can only speak of one of them because I haven't met the other but good people. One of the things that they commiserated about except my wife, was the lack of decent men in THE metropolitan area something my wife's friend said that my wife doesn't know what's it like out there.
Something, my wife commented on saying she's glad she's not single because she doesn't think she'd have the stamina to deal with the current dating scene. One of the examples, is that we met prior to smartphones so there's a lack of genitals in our text messaging. Maybe I should surprise her.
So my wife is meeting up with her friend and this woman she met on vacation later this week. Both her and my wife's friend are single, great jobs, highly attractive and I can only speak of one of them because I haven't met the other but good people. One of the things that they commiserated about except my wife, was the lack of decent men in THE metropolitan area something my wife's friend said that my wife doesn't know what's it like out there.
Something, my wife commented on saying she's glad she's not single because she doesn't think she'd have the stamina to deal with the current dating scene. One of the examples, is that we met prior to smartphones so there's a lack of genitals in our text messaging. Maybe I should surprise her.
The kinds of jobs you're looking for, where the bar is "my resume doesn't have any misspellings" doesn't give you room to grow, financially or career-wise. For those jobs, it doesn't matter if you have 9 years of experience (like it sounds you do), or 10 seconds of experience, which means there's no special reason for them to hire you.
I'm special at my job because I'm a great problem solver and I get things done. That gives me room to negotiate. When I work with people, they're getting A LOT from me, so I can make sure I get something from them too.
Jobs where you're asking people to give you something to do, that almost anyone can do, that doesn't give you room to negotiate. Why should they hire you over anyone else?
What sorts of other skills have you gained, that don't involve inputting forms or spelling? Your grammar is good enough to be understandable, which is more than what I can say for Donald Trump.
Yeah, spiderman2, you have to take stock of your strengths and expand your options.
Totally agree.
She figured it would be a one-time thing but they've been texting back and forth since then.
LMAO so dudes who think you "need to get your life together" before dating need to know more women like my sister.
She hooked up with a musician from a pop singer's touring band last week (famous enough to have been on multiple late-night talk shows) and will be flying to NYC to see him in a few weeks and I'm just dying our parents cannot know about this.
But yeah she's a successful ambitious woman who goes after broke musicians so that whole "I gotta get my life together before dating" is BS y'alls. Being boring and doing the expensive typical date stuff is the worst for her.
But then the question you have to ask yourself is: Do you want to play that game too? Do you want to date someone, marry someone, be legally bound to them for decades, knowing that their feelings for you are conditional?
But what both my sister and I like are people who have a growth mindset, who are interested in things other than status and money.
But how is that real life? Nobody has the luxury to pause life so they can to "focus on a relationship." Unless they're super-rich and don't need to work. But even then, a lot of the time, they got that way because they're inherent workaholics.
But how is that real life? Nobody has the luxury to pause life so they can to "focus on a relationship." Unless they're super-rich and don't need to work. But even then, a lot of the time, they got that way because they're inherent workaholics.
A relationship fits into your existing life. If you have to change around your entire lifestyle for someone to be in a relationship with them, they aren't for you.
So happy for you!