Plenty of Fish. I just gave him some pointers on his profile. Some of them I thought were pretty obvious, but I guess a woman's POV is always necessary.
Some tips that I guess are not obvious to guys: don't brood in selfies, and for God's sake, don't just post selfies! My husband is the broodiest hermit I know, but I sure didn't know it by his POF profile. He broods all the damn time, but none of his POF pictures were selfies
or broody. He may be a little socially awkward, but at least he knew THAT much.
He got more dates out of POF than I did, but I'm also paranoid.
Having only 5 pictures taken with your own phone in your car, bathroom, or bedroom just makes it seem like you take yourself waaay too seriously and have no friends.
And I know you want to keep it casual, but please proofread for typos and misspelled words. There are many, many more guys than girls on such sites, so even if you aren't the most edumacated person, don't
give girls a reason to move to the next profile. Typos and bad grammar are the
easiest way to cull messages. Fact. (Well, that and brooding selfies.
) There are so many other guys who take the extra minute to proofread, why should I spend my time on a guy who doesn't even care enough to do it?