I still think there's a parallel between Talia and Bruce. She wasn't just committing revenge against Bruce but she was also obsessed with fulfilling her father's legacy of destroying Gotham. This isn't about revenge vs. justice the parallel is the obsession in fulfilling a promise to their parents.
		
		
	 
But Talia never made any promise to her parents. She didn't even like her father for what he did, and was not even forgiving of Ra's until he died. Then she takes it upon herself to finish something he died doing, and getting revenge on Batman, too.
That's not at all similar to Bruce and how he dealt with the death of his parents. 
	
	
		
		
			I also don't think that it's all that important to show a scene of him visiting his parents' grave in the movie. IMO that feels like a waste of screentime given that he's still acknowledging their legacy.
		
		
	 
I do. Bruce was leaving his home presumably for good. His parents home. Where they were laid to rest. A final goodbye before he walks away from this forever was not a waste.
It was more of a waste to see Alfred blubbering over Bruce's grave when he finds out he's still alive 5 minutes later.
	
	
		
		
			Ok, Blake is incompetent. However, I still think he's pretty resourceful and clever (at least from what we're shown).
		
		
	 
Sure he was a good Cop but that doesn't make him the top candidate to be Batman. I can't fathom what made Bruce think beyond a doubt he was the guy for the job.
At least in Begins Ra's tested Bruce before he accepted him for training. Bruce tested Dent before he decided he was a better hero than Batman could be for Gotham.
Blake got no test from Bruce. Bruce didn't see anything from him that could impress him beyond a doubt that he was the guy to inherit the Batman mantle.
	
	
		
		
			I brought up Terry in regards to the Pilot episode when Bruce finally returned control of the suit and not after the fact that he was being supervised by Bruce.
		
		
	 
Ok, but you see the big difference there. Terry was never left alone while Bruce went off abroad. He was there all the time training, monitoring, and supervising Terry. Even helping him in the field on occasion.
	
	
		
		
			I think we both agree here. I wasn't that bothered that he ended up pursuing something with Selina the way most people were given her previous betrayal. I was responding to somebody saying that Bruce being with Selina is totally against his character (of which I think is the opposite).
		
		
	 
Ok cool.
	
	
		
		
			I think one of the themes of the movie was overcoming that obsession. That was the also the contrast against Bane/Talia (hence Bane saying he never escaped the pit) in that they ended up being totally consumed by their obsessions and needlessly giving their lives for it.
		
		
	 
The pit had nothing to do with obsession. It was about fear. Finding his fear again. He was in a state of mind that he didn't care if he died. 
Bane and Talia were not obsessed. Not like Bruce. Going by their back story they didn't care until Ra's died. Bane had been kicked out of the LOS, and Talia had cut herself off from her dad. So it was not like a life long obsession. It was just something they took upon themselves to do after Ra's died. Heck Bane was a grown ass man when he first met Talia lol.
	
	
		
		
			I think Batman being able to give it up is open to interpretation and doesn't necessarily go against the grain of the character.
		
		
	 
I'm afraid it does since he has never given it up indefinitely in any medium. Even in Beyond he is living it through Terry.
	
	
		
		
			I will say though that Batman Beyond and TDKReturns are also amongst my favorite "endings" for the Batman legend, so I have nothing against the forever obsessed Bruce, but TDKRises is by far my favorite (i'm a sucker for happy endings).
		
		
	 
That's fair enough. That's your preference.