My wife and I loved it.. She said it made her want to cry and she's not a comic person. She said dc does adult movies and marvel us for kids
I choked up several times myself. These are characters you care about. LOVE what they did with Perry White as well.
Frankly, this is the comic book film where I feel most attached to the characters. The Reeve Superman films were great (I & II), but it never looked like Superman was threatened. Lois' death was the emotional high point. But this flick was far more personal.
I feel little attachment to anything in the Marvel films. They are fun movies, but the characters don't really portray issues I can identify with or sympathize with too often. I'm not knocking those films overall, but the level of emotional involvement in this one is high.
It's also much higher than in the TDK Trilogy. I kind of gave a "wow" when Rachel died and Harvey holding the Gordon's was pretty rough - and Batman's "sacrifice" at the end of TDKR was moving - but this one is on a different level.
I think that may be part of the critics' issue. You sympathize with Clark's plight. Frankly, you also get where Zod comes from. Zod's not supercomplex, but the movie explains why.
This isn't your daddy's Superman. There's more moral complexity here and a lot more destruction (another thing that some could take issue with).
I can see where some of the critics come from, but I don't agree with them. I didn't detect any plotholes like some have said, but often times critics will call the lack of explanation a plot hole.
All that said, the movie is so dense that one viewing cannot do it justice. I'm aching to see it again. There's so much to take in. I'm not too sure any critical review based on a singular viewing can be completely fair.
Ultimately each person has to decide for themselves. I loved it. I teared up several times. I laughed several times. My jaw about hit the floor on more than one occasion.
I think the "too much action" or video game action gripes aren't really justified. Just because Kryptonians are moving superfast and doing crazy things at the speed of sound or faster may look like a video game, but how else do you pull it off. The action is not realistic at all because Kryptonians are involved. Unlike Avengers where everything moved at mostly normal speeds, this doesn't happen here. Building don't collapse because they are hit by missiles or falling ships - the fall because a Kryptonian got thrown through one or into one. The incredible powers of all involved here are on display. It is unrealistic because we know of no one that can actually do that. If the criticism is unrealistic action then that person shouldn't be watching a comic book flick. Just sayin'.