Well said! Most of us wanted a "realistic" take on Supes and we got it. I never saw Supes as having a "no kill" rule but instead a "no human kill" rule.
There's never any reason for Supes to kill a human because he's just more powerful than all of us, there is always an out when it comes to confronting a human being. But for beings that are just as powerful as him that "out" doesn't exist. It's like the difference between fighting someone your height, weight, and build vs fighting a toddler.
I agree about the distinction between a true no-kill rule and a "no killing humans" rule.
I made a post about Superman's no-kill rule a week or so back and I thought I'd repost it here because it applies to this perfectly:
They didn't need to introduce the no-kill rule in this movie. The issue is that even though this movie is a reboot and doesn't including anything but what was shown, people have preconceptions of who Superman is. They assume he has a no-kill rule because he's had one in the comics before. But the movie never told us he had one because he didn't. He had no reason to. This isn't a seasoned superman who fights super villains regularly and has had to decide whether or not to kill. This is a rookie who would never have encountered a situation where he would need to kill. He can subdue any earthly enemy. He would not even need to consider the idea of killing because it would be irrelevant to him until his fight with Zod. His reaction to killing was visceral and fresh. He had done something without knowing exactly how it would make him feel. That scene didn't feature superman "breaking his one rule." It featured a desperate rookie making a decision that he would never have fathomed before and feeling the consequences.
They were really interested in explaining the why's of the batman mythology, I'm not surprised they seem to be doing the same here. How well they do it remains to be seen imo. But I do know it's a far tougher sell. Especially from people that don't read the comics imo.
This part is intriguing. The most peculiar type of Superman fan, IMO, is the kind that bases their idea of who Superman is solely on the Reeve films. They tend to think that Reeve/Donner=Superman. Although, some people tend to think this even though they have read some comics because these live-action versions stick out prominently in their minds, like a sweet childhood memory. There's nothing wrong with this, but it does breed some limited views in some folks. I've had arguments with folks like this. I say: "Look guys, the Reeve Superman killed people." They just look at me. I've even seen it on these forums. People will remind folks that Reeve Supes killed and they'll have no response. They'll just ignore it like they can't process it. I've seen internet memes and rants by folks who draw or mention Reeves Supes in contrast to Cavill Supes with statements like "the REAL Superman doesn't kill." But their "real" Supes did kill. Where do people think Zod and his cronies went after that fall? Are they picking wild flowers down there?
This leads me to two interesting phenomena that I think contribute to people viewing these two "killer Supes!" incidences differently:
1) Overtness of the killing: The Donner movies had a pretty light tone overall and there was a lot of comedy and what people like to call "whimsy." They had Supes kill in a pretty water-down, "sweep them off the screen like cartoon villans" sort of way. In contrast, MOS Supes just broke the guy's neck. Just...crack! And it's done. People couldn't sweep that one away or pretend it didn't happen because it was highlighted and brutal.
2) Goyer and Nolan: I think people had some preconcieved ideas about these two because their most prominent work was on batman. People here these names and automatically think "Dark! Gritty!" Combine these preconceptions with stylistic choices like a dark palette and people are going to expect "dark" things from this supes. They're going to label him before seeing him and I think some people see what they want to see/expect to see with a certain creative team. There are so many complaints to the effect of "They've made Superman into Batman!" But yet...this Superman smiles at his Ma, drinks beer while watching football, rides a bike to his first day at work, calms Lois's freak out when he meets her after her injury in a cave, admits that the WE might make him weak but he's still going to try attacking it, talks firmly and politely to the military, lets them cuff him, etc. Essentially, he is still somewhat of a boy scout.