The Relationship Thread and the Kingdom of the Crystal Advice

[terry78]

This thread just got dark as ****.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Coke is a great way to start a threeway. Coke is really about the girls. I personally dislike the hangover and I'm more into "cerebral" drugs but man do girls love that sh**. It'll get your d*** s***ed faster than diamonds.

Yeah I knew a guy who was dealing coke for a while, and he had 3 girlfriends... they were all okay with that, because they just wanted the free coke!

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Did a white knight just call me a name? How rude.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

This thread just got dark as ****.

In fairness, I think when you're considering people's relationship problems, one of the first things to look at is their drink and drug habits.

If someone has never had a drink before, never goes to bars, and thinks drunk girls and anyone who touches drugs are scum... that's key info as to part of their problem.

Similarly, if someone drinks all the time, only meets people in bars and is caught up in a world full of drugs even if their not as much a part of it as everyone else they know... that's also key... and that's my life

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

And this is why I aspire to be the opposite of everything that is SuperMike.

I love how I got called a 'White Knight' then a page later I'm talking about all the f***ed up sh** I've done.

I've smoked with Too $hort and the guy from the Men's Wearhouse Commercials. The latter is a MAJOR stoner btw.

 

[DV8]

I've never had the guts to try shrooms or LSD.

I'm a bit of a lightweight with most drugs. I can do a little bit of certain things, and sometimes do at parties. But if I cross the line from little bit into too much for me, I tend to spin out/throw up/have a panic attack.

It makes me not wanna do something that's as out of my control as LSD especially... and I just have this feeling shrooms wouldn't go down to well either. Basically, if you go in thinking 'i'm gonna have a bad trip', you probably will, and i've just never shook that idea.

Weirdly, ketamine's the only one that doesn't seem to have any negative effect on me.

I know if you do it all the time you get bladder problems... but honestly between two jobs I don't have that much time to party hard!

But i'd choose it over a lot of things because: 1. You get no hangover (or at least I don't, I wake up bright as day!) 2. It wears off really quick, so even if you do a lot and completely trip out/spin your tit off, you'll be back to the world in an hour or two. 3. It's almost impossible for me to freak out once I hit the 'trip' stage (I put it in brackets cause it's not really a trip, it's like a seperation from reality), you're not consciously aware enough to feel fear IMO.

yeah, if that's how you get just smoking weed and have that preconceived notion about shrooms/Acid DO NOT try it . . . it will be bad news

 

[Anubis]

You'll like the way you look.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

You'll like the way you look.

He stole some dude's chick WHILE he was in the room. Dude's a pimp.

 

[DV8]

Coke is a great way to start a threeway. Coke is really about the girls. I personally dislike the hangover and I'm more into "cerebral" drugs but man do girls love that sh**. It'll get your d*** s***ed faster than diamonds.

yeah that's awesome . . . except uhhhh my dick doesn't get hard on coke or ecstacy God hates me

 

[Anubis]

It's true. He told me so.

 

[DV8]

I love how I got called a 'White Knight' then a page later I'm talking about all the f***ed up sh** I've done.

I've smoked with Too $hort and the guy from the Men's Wearhouse Commercials. The latter is a MAJOR stoner btw.

I ****ing KNEW IT!!! I tried to get high with Cee-Lo but he doesn't smoke cuz of his voice . . . and Danger Mouse wouldn't smoke with me either I think they want to make sure they don't smoke some **** laced with meth

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

yeah that's awesome . . . except uhhhh my dick doesn't get hard on coke or ecstacy God hates me

I've never done enough at one time to test whether or not that would happen to me. I usually only did one or two bumps.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

I love how I got called a 'White Knight' then a page later I'm talking about all the f***ed up sh** I've done.

I've smoked with Too $hort and the guy from the Men's Wearhouse Commercials. The latter is a MAJOR stoner btw.

Well I edited my post cuz I felt after posting it that I was a bit out of line, but so much for that now lol.

But it's just that male machismo that you touched on that SuperMike responded to that really put me off, and the attitude that any guy who disagrees with his ways is a "white knight". He's used that term on a few occasions now.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

yeah, if that's how you get just smoking weed and have that preconceived notion about shrooms/Acid DO NOT try it . . . it will be bad news

I actually wasn't talking about weed (I sometimes do a bit of speed or mdma at a party, but only ever a little bit because I don't like 'rushing' or being awake for 48 hours).

But that said, I used to be a complete bong head, and had to stop cause it was giving me panic attacks, anxiety and paranoia.

I think weed's one of those things that some people can do their whole lives and some people just sort of have a breaking point.

I mean, out of a big group of us, half still smoke it daily, and the other half don't touch it. Doesn't mean their even remotely off other drugs (some of my friends/people I used to know are even into smoking crack and heroin), but for some reason weed's just different.

My mum's boyf of ten years has been sober for about 15. He was an everything addict. And he's said multiple times that he'd rather take heroin again than ever smoke another joint. I've never really understood that, but he's adamant about it, he hates the stuff.

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

I ****ing KNEW IT!!! I tried to get high with Cee-Lo but he doesn't smoke cuz of his voice . . . and Danger Mouse wouldn't smoke with me either I think they want to make sure they don't smoke some **** laced with meth

He lives in California and has a "prescription"

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

Bill Murray occasionally eats a block from my house. One day I WILL smoke with him.

 

[DV8]

I've never done enough at one time to test whether or not that would happen to me. I usually only did one or two bumps.

yeah that's pry the smart thing to do . . . I have a problem controlling the amount I ingest when it's around though

 

[DV8]

I actually wasn't talking about weed (I sometimes do a bit of speed or mdma at a party, but only ever a little bit because I don't like 'rushing' or being awake for 48 hours).

But that said, I used to be a complete bong head, and had to stop cause it was giving me panic attacks, anxiety and paranoia.

I think weed's one of those things that some people can do their whole lives and some people just sort of have a breaking point.

I mean, out of a big group of us, half still smoke it daily, and the other half don't touch it. Doesn't mean their even remotely off other drugs (some of my friends/people I used to know are even into smoking crack and heroin), but for some reason weed's just different.

My mum's boyf of ten years has been sober for about 15. He was an everything addict. And he's said multiple times that he'd rather take heroin again than ever smoke another joint. I've never really understood that, but he's adamant about it, he hates the stuff.

same thing happened to me . . . I used to smoke all day, EVERYDAY . . . now, I will only smoke it once I've had a few drinks and only take a few hits; it puts me right at my level

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Yeah, defo same. All happened when I was quite young as well. Started smoking it at 14, by 16 we were smoking constantly whenever we could, and by 18 I tried ecstacy (it didn't go well at all, I mean I proper freaked out, puked black slime all over this girls bed and then passed out). Shortly after that, I started having anxiety and had no idea what it was. It wasn't until I stopped smoking that the worst panic attacks of my life hit me... was really scary cause I didn't understand it.

I couldn't even drink for a year! Every time I had a sip of a WKD i'd start panicking. No matter how much I tried to reason with myself, it was just this subconscious reaction. I did eventually ease back into that before I went to university at 19, but I was so scared of pretty much anything drug related for ages.

Honestly, that was incredibly difficult where i'm from, and in my group of friends. I mean, i'm pretty much a fun person anyway, but it's really difficult trying to hang out with people who are on ketamine, or tripping or rambling at 1000 words a minute on, speed, when your totally not in their zone.

It was actually only the year before last when I was out with just my best friend and something inside me just changed. I just decided that night to try some mdma, just me and him. Then a few weeks later some ketamine, and then a little while after that some speed.

I have no idea what changed... I just knew I wanted to try it, and I knew the idea didn't scare me anymore. I guess I was just sick of not knowing what anyone was talking about, not being able to experience things that I actually DID want to experience... I mean, I think a part of it was jealousy... I was getting really really bitter about the fact that everyone else was always getting wasted and I couldn't join in because I was afraid.

And I wanted to prove something really important to myself - that the reason I didn't turn out a druggie with no job like some of my friends, isn't because I was too scared, but because I CHOSE not to be.

So it's actually been pretty cool the last couple of years. The whole thing has just been completely resolved now. I'm at a place where I know that I am not a druggie, but that if I want to do some at a party then I will. It's much less stressful, I feel much less anxiety about it now... I can't even begin to explain how horrible it is to live with druggies, have all your friends doing drugs around you, and have absolutely no idea what their world is, what their experiencing and generally constantly feeling tempted and then terrified by the prospect...

I know it sounds absolutely crazy, and I wish so badly that i'd grown up in a less drug filled place and had people around me who didn't take anything, but i'm honestly so much better off doing them occasionally than I ever was forcing myself not too.

 

[DV8]

Yeah, defo same. All happened when I was quite young as well. Started smoking it at 14, by 16 we were smoking constantly whenever we could, and by 18 I tried ecstacy (it didn't go well at all, I mean I proper freaked out, puked black slime all over this girls bed and then passed out). Shortly after that, I started having anxiety and had no idea what it was. It wasn't until I stopped smoking that the worst panic attacks of my life hit me... was really scary cause I didn't understand it.

I couldn't even drink for a year! Every time I had a sip of a WKD i'd start panicking. No matter how much I tried to reason with myself, it was just this subconscious reaction. I did eventually ease back into that before I went to university at 19, but I was so scared of pretty much anything drug related for ages.

Honestly, that was incredibly difficult where i'm from, and in my group of friends. I mean, i'm pretty much a fun person anyway, but it's really difficult trying to hang out with people who are on ketamine, or tripping or rambling at 1000 words a minute on, speed, when your totally not in their zone.

It was actually only the year before last when I was out with just my best friend and something inside me just changed. I just decided that night to try some mdma, just me and him. Then a few weeks later some ketamine, and then a little while after that some speed.

I have no idea what changed... I just knew I wanted to try it, and I knew the idea didn't scare me anymore. I guess I was just sick of not knowing what anyone was talking about, not being able to experience things that I actually DID want to experience... I mean, I think a part of it was jealousy... I was getting really really bitter about the fact that everyone else was always getting wasted and I couldn't join in because I was afraid.

And I wanted to prove something really important to myself - that the reason I didn't turn out a druggie with no job like some of my friends, isn't because I was too scared, but because I CHOSE not to be.

So it's actually been pretty cool the last couple of years. The whole thing has just been completely resolved now. I'm at a place where I know that I am not a druggie, but that if I want to do some at a party then I will. It's much less stressful, I feel much less anxiety about it now... I can't even begin to explain how horrible it is to live with druggies, have all your friends doing drugs around you, and have absolutely no idea what their world is, what their experiencing and generally constantly feeling tempted and then terrified by the prospect...

I know it sounds absolutely crazy, and I wish so badly that i'd grown up in a less drug filled place and had people around me who didn't take anything, but i'm honestly so much better off doing them occasionally than I ever was forcing myself not too.

WOW . . . that is really strange; I've never heard of anyone having such a strong negative reaction to ecstacy . . . EVER; are you sure it was ecstacy? maybe someone lied to you . . .

I got really bad panic attacks too . . . it was caused by a really bad trip on Acid; since then I've gotten paranoid from smoking weed like I described; I still can drink w/o any problems, and I have tripped my nuts off SEVERAL times Lol

 

[Optimus_Prime_]

yeah that's pry the smart thing to do . . . I have a problem controlling the amount I ingest when it's around though

Coke and I have a weird relationship. I always wanted to try it just to say I did but I never really felt like it would be something I personally would like. If I ever bought it or had it I reserved it for other people.

 

[enterthemadness]

I don't do drugs n--nope, caffeine in my soda drinks. ^_^ sometimes I get a sugar high from it.

I've been texting a woman yesterday & today from POF. On my cell. Dunno if I'm friendzoned yet, but she's only looking for a friend for now.

Anyhoo, thought I'd let you all know.

 

[DV8]

Coke and I have a weird relationship. I always wanted to try it just to say I did but I never really felt like it would be something I personally would like. If I ever bought it or had it I reserved it for other people.

it's better than way; it is extremely addictive . . . better to not **** with it at all to be honest; and it's ridiculously expensive

 

[hopefuldreamer]

WOW . . . that is really strange; I've never heard of anyone having such a strong negative reaction to ecstacy . . . EVER; are you sure it was ecstacy? maybe someone lied to you . . .

I got really bad panic attacks too . . . it was caused by a really bad trip on Acid; since then I've gotten paranoid from smoking weed like I described; I still can drink w/o any problems, and I have tripped my nuts off SEVERAL times Lol

Yeah it's bizarre. I mean, sure it might have had other stuff in it, but I think it's just that my body REALLY doesn't like rushing.

The other weekend I did a bomb of mdma which was a really stupid idea. Usually I just put a bit on my finger and straight into my mouth. That way I can see that i'm only taking as much as I can handle... if I want more later I can always have it. But this time I was offered an already wrapped amount and just took it... I came up, threw up 6 times and then slept for the next 8 hours. Luckily I was in my flat with friends, so they all stayed and just hung out till I was better.

I'm just not great with drugs. Except ketamine I really do seem to agree with ketamine. Though I will say, a few of my friends don't get on with it... they just don't like the way it makes them feel.

Oh, and from the outside, ketamine is seriously scary when you do a lot. I mean, people look messed up, or if their in a k-hole, they look dead. Completely not moving, eyes blankly staring, dead.

Coke and I have a weird relationship. I always wanted to try it just to say I did but I never really felt like it would be something I personally would like. If I ever bought it or had it I reserved it for other people.

Coke does pretty much nothing for me. I'll take it at a party if it's offered, because it does stimulate you a little bit... but I couldn't put my finger on what it does that is worth paying any money for.

On the plus side, it's another drug thats never given me a hangover though.

 

[SuperMike335!!]

Well I edited my post cuz I felt after posting it that I was a bit out of line, but so much for that now lol.

Wow you no like me?