I wholeheartedly agree. This is especially jarring for me WRT military characters and the like, particularly when the film paints itself as being anything remotely authentic.
I also noticed your criticism earlier about the Army officer's comment about Superman. Almost chuckled at someone's attempt(and uninitiated, for that matter) to refute it, and I can certainly affirm that it wouldn't happen in today's military. Simply put, no officer worth his or her salt would ever make a comment like that under those circumstances. Ever. The damage to their credibility and career(an adverse fitness report wouldn't be out of the question) would make any of them think twice.
Maybe I'm biased in this respect, but I'd like it if more care were given to the portrayal of service members in films. I get it that they're an easy and rather effective plot device to fall back on(hive-minded oppressors/saviours), but in my nine years, I've met as many intelligent, independent thinkers in the military as I have anywhere else, be it government or the private sector. It's funny, because for as far out there as the premise was, Battle: Los Angeles gave me among the most authentic portrayals of the military I've ever personally seen in cinema; everything from conduct, to TTPs, and general demeanor, that movie managed to humanize the soldiers & airmen while still depicting the discipline and professionalism that they're known for. /rant, and sorry to derail, but your comments reminded me of this.