The Relationship Thread: Because Superhero Forums are Full of Sexperts! - - - - - - - - Part 27

[the last son]

Just got off a first meet with a lady. Went really well. Out of 10 I'd give her an 8. We walked around city for an hr n half and ended date with hug. I can't really say sexual chemistry was there. Felt more like two friends talking. She told me to hit her up sometime.

 

[the last son]

I forgot to ask her face to face if she wanted to go on an actual date.

 

[the last son]

Not putting all my eggs in one basket. Another date with another woman on Sunday

 

[Mr.M]

Uh, I have total dominion over this relationship thread.

That would be Anita. This is her thread. Move aside.

 

[JJJ's Ulcer]

Anita, Erz and Nell run this thread together like the Triad.

(No, but seriously Anita and Erz give advice in most of their posts in this thread playing the part of the therapist, while Nell is their neurotic patient on the couch who will never get it together no matter how many sessions he has).

 

[Anita18]

Anita, Erz and Nell run this thread together like the Triad.

(No, but seriously Anita and Erz give advice in most of their posts in this thread playing the part of the therapist, while Nell is their neurotic patient on the couch who will never get it together no matter how many sessions he has).

Eh, we have a regularly rotating number of patients here now, no need to call anyone out.

Especially since he hasn't been whinging here that much as of late.

 

[Erzengel]

I get it Triad because we're Asian and Nell wants to be in Asian.

That would be Anita. This is her thread. Move aside.

Who do you think was giving Anita advice that didn't pertain to her when she met her husband?

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

^ I love how you typed "in Asian"... Freudian slip or not, it's very appropriate

 

[Mr.M]

I get it Triad because we're Asian and Nell wants to be in Asian.



Who do you think was giving Anita advice that didn't pertain to her when she met her husband?

Yeah she was the apprentice and you were the Sith, and then you got back stabbed and sabered through the waste and that was that.

Now Nell is the new apprentice trying to take over. The Hype will rue the day if that ever happened, but Anita will be tough to pass at this point.

 

[Charlie Boy]

But seriously, not attending school because he admitted he gets too horny? That's far too immature even for someone in their 20s.

... What?!

 

[enterthemadness]

So, she got back to me. Saying pretty much it's a weekend party.

Do I text back, cool hope you have fun?

 

[enterthemadness]

... What?!

Yeah, I let my emotions get the best of me. While I do like school, i let everything get to me, something I need to work on.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

So, she got back to me. Saying pretty much it's a weekend party.

Do I text back, cool hope you have fun?

If you don't want to see her again, sure.

If you do want to see her again: "Cool, have fun at the party, and we can get together some other time. I'm off on Thursday (again an example), let's try then"

 

[enterthemadness]

Sure, but do you have any long-term plans? Bouncing from minimum-wage job to minimum-wage job isn't very sustainable.

I know. Do you think it's wise of me to put in for prep cook at places? It's just washing food and cutting it up I think.

 

[enterthemadness]

If you don't want to see her again, sure.

If you do want to see her again: "Cool, have fun at the party, and we can get together some other time. I'm off on Thursday (again an example), let's try then"

Ooh. What about coffee before work? Not off til the weekend.

 

[the last son]

Text today or tomorrow to ask for second date?

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Ooh. What about coffee before work? Not off til the weekend.

Great idea. Now you're thinking.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Text today or tomorrow to ask for second date?

The date was today? Wait til tomorrow. Say you enjoyed meeting her, and you're looking forward to seeing her again. You're free on XYZ day, and would like to do ABC activity.

 

[the last son]

Hmm I should say first date. Today was a meet.

 

[enterthemadness]

Great idea. Now you're thinking.

Ok, I did that. Adding in I work all this week but suggesting Starbucks for Thursday around 2.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Hmm I should say first date. Today was a meet.

Awww.

Well again, I'd say wait til tomorrow. Shoot her a text, or even call her, tell her you enjoyed meeting her, and that you'd like to take her on a real date, and ask her if she'll join you for dinner on Friday (again, whatever day works for you)

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Ok, I did that. Adding in I work all this week but suggesting Starbucks for Thursday around 2.

I'm proud of you!

 

[the last son]

Nice suggestion Nell. Thank you.

 

[enterthemadness]

I'm proud of you!

Only thing to make me feel better is if mlb.tv at bat would let me watch a game lol. who knew living 6 hours from D.C. would be a blackout restriction for the Marlins game.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Nice suggestion Nell. Thank you.

Good luck. Let us know how it goes.