The Relationship Thread: Because Superhero Forums are Full of Sexperts! - - Part 31

[Lily Adler]

 

[InCali]

5 years later we got married in March!

Congrats. If I gave you any advice, I'm glad you ignored it.

 

[Babillygunn]

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She seems sweet.

 

[MissMarvelous]

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Well, it safe to say that she was very committed to make it work. And she was pretty communicative!!!

It's hard to date these days.

 

[InCali]

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Does anyone have her phone number? I'd like to give her 100,000 calls or so.

 

[theastsunnn]

Why is this cheating scandal such a big deal? Why do people care? How do you know they’re not in open relationships? Too much time in others lives. Why is the job handing down disciplines?

 

[Lily Adler]

 

[Lily Adler]

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She seems sweet.

Well, it safe to say that she was very committed to make it work. And she was pretty communicative!!!

It's hard to date these days.

Does anyone have her phone number? I'd like to give her 100,000 calls or so.

She looks like Maeby from Arrested Development.

 

[Lily Adler]

Why is this cheating scandal such a big deal? Why do people care? How do you know they’re not in open relationships? Too much time in others lives. Why is the job handing down disciplines?

I honestly don't know why it became a big deal, but the media made it happen. Apparently, the company handles data for most of Big Tech.

 

[Babillygunn]

Why is this cheating scandal such a big deal? Why do people care? How do you know they’re not in open relationships? Too much time in others lives. Why is the job handing down disciplines?

I honestly don't know why it became a big deal, but the media made it happen. Apparently, the company handles data for most of Big Tech.

Legally, it is a big deal because she was director of HR and he is the CEO. I’m sure that the company would likely have policies to deter actions that they themselves were engaged in. Basically, it is never appropriate for someone in a superiority/leadership position to engage in a relationship with someone who is in a subordinate position. You just don’t do that and it opens the company to huge liabilities. And as for her, she was in the position that is supposed to police such activity.

It’s a huge failure of leadership all around. And it’s the kind of activity that puts the company at risk.

 

[Lily Adler]

 

[Lily Adler]

Legally, it is a big deal because she was director of HR and he is the CEO. I’m sure that the company would likely have policies to deter actions that they themselves were engaged in. Basically, it is never appropriate for someone in a superiority/leadership position to engage in a relationship with someone who is in a subordinate position. You just don’t do that and it opens the company to huge liabilities. And as for her, she was in the position that is supposed to police such activity.

It’s a huge failure of leadership all around. And it’s the kind of activity that puts the company at risk.

Oh snap. I forgot that she worked in the company.

 

[Erzengel]

Even if they played it cool (people have freaked out on stadium cams before), it was still possible that someone would have outed them. However, the whole diving out of camera range made everyone take notice, and enough people can easily play internet detective.

 

[InCali]

Oh snap. I forgot that she worked in the company.

I heard this morning that the dude resigned.

 

[theastsunnn]

I’ve yet to meet a woman who looks better with makeup

 

[theastsunnn]

This is love. Being 37 and with this woman for a couple of years now. Before this never really in any long term relationships but some short term and would always keep my dating apps open and be a proponent of dating multiple women, but you hope with age comes maturity and now i just can’t even think about cheating. We’re working towards a family and marriage one day. The trust that we’ve built i wouldn’t dare break. Too much respect for her as not only my partner but friend. What would it say about me if I break that over another woman?
Do I ever see a beautiful woman and have thoughts? I’d be lying if I said I didn’t fantasize but that’s all it truly is. I remember how hard it was for me dating. Yeah I had some fun with people but this love truly means more to me. My fantasy woman could approach me and i believe deep in my heart I would have no interest. I’d rather do the honorable thing for once in my life and break up if I was truly considering that. Which I’m not just typing random thoughts. It’s much more manly to turn down a woman because you’re in a committed relationship than to be a player. 27 year old me wouldn’t agree but is my thought process now. The feeling of knowing someone has your back and you have theirs is stronger in my soul than any sexual urges or temptations. Now obviously I can’t predict the future, but I’m pretty certain at the moment i have no interest in looking at any other females for that type of relationship. It’s really refreshing. Can just look at the opposite sex as a human instead of an attraction for a relationship. I have no money, i work 60 hours a week, but I’m in love and happier than I’ve ever been. Realizing I don’t need material things. Can my heart be broken today? Sure, but right now I’m focusing on the good and making good choices to strengthen my life. I was an anxious human who struggled to find a partner, but kept at it and believed. Good luck to everyone

 

[ComicChick]

This is love. Being 37 and with this woman for a couple of years now. Before this never really in any long term relationships but some short term and would always keep my dating apps open and be a proponent of dating multiple women, but you hope with age comes maturity and now i just can’t even think about cheating. We’re working towards a family and marriage one day. The trust that we’ve built i wouldn’t dare break. Too much respect for her as not only my partner but friend. What would it say about me if I break that over another woman?
Do I ever see a beautiful woman and have thoughts? I’d be lying if I said I didn’t fantasize but that’s all it truly is. I remember how hard it was for me dating. Yeah I had some fun with people but this love truly means more to me. My fantasy woman could approach me and i believe deep in my heart I would have no interest. I’d rather do the honorable thing for once in my life and break up if I was truly considering that. Which I’m not just typing random thoughts. It’s much more manly to turn down a woman because you’re in a committed relationship than to be a player. 27 year old me wouldn’t agree but is my thought process now. The feeling of knowing someone has your back and you have theirs is stronger in my soul than any sexual urges or temptations. Now obviously I can’t predict the future, but I’m pretty certain at the moment i have no interest in looking at any other females for that type of relationship. It’s really refreshing. Can just look at the opposite sex as a human instead of an attraction for a relationship. I have no money, i work 60 hours a week, but I’m in love and happier than I’ve ever been. Realizing I don’t need material things. Can my heart be broken today? Sure, but right now I’m focusing on the good and making good choices to strengthen my life. I was an anxious human who struggled to find a partner, but kept at it and believed. Good luck to everyone

so nice to see this from you. i'm glad youre in a happier, healthier place

 

[Lily Adler]

 

[MissMarvelous]

I'm still assessing my emotions here.

On the one had this whole thing seems shallow to me, but on the other - the guy seems very nice and has a great story to share (we all do).

But the line "we can go shopping" is almost despicable. Be suave about it! Later. When you actually find out if you two are a match.

 

[Lily Adler]

 

[Lily Adler]

 

[GunBlade]

doesn't sound very appealing

 

[theastsunnn]

I just don’t understand people who will date their friends ex. There’s a billion people go find one of them to date. I get if you want your friend to be happy it doesn’t matter who they date, but I think there should just be enough honor not to date your friends ex.

 

[Shinobi Shaw]

I just don’t understand people who will date their friends ex. There’s a billion people go find one of them to date. I get if you want your friend to be happy it doesn’t matter who they date, but I think there should just be enough honor not to date your friends ex.

That is such a dirty move, and it shows that your 'friend' had eyes for your ex when you two were together.

 

[Babillygunn]

I once had an ex girlfriend who at the time I’d remained friends with. One of my buddies asked if he could ask her out. I was happy to tell him to go for it. I still liked the girl as a friend and I wanted to see her with someone who I thought would be good to her.


Of course the whole thing came crashing down because it turned out that she wasn’t feeling it at the end of the date and when he went in for a kiss she told him no. Then a side of this friend that I’d never seen before came out and he went psycho and threatened to kill her. After I found out, I talked to her about it. Turned out, he sent her threatening letters afterward. I had to intervene and told him to leave her alone, which he did.

Suffice it to say, it ended the friendship, but I’m really glad that it did.