A New "Official" Relationship Advice Thread

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My mom thinks I should send him a "hi" text and leave it at that to test the waters. But seeming clingy, especially after last night, is not what I want. But I do confess I want to talk to him. Not about last night, God no. Just talk period.
 
I don't think I'd send any text until you hear from him first ... Or at least wait a day or so.
 
Texting him has become part of my daily routine. We've texted every day since our first date, even if it's just a short conversation.
 
Do not send the 'Hi' text. As ATP said, just wait for him to text.
 
I mentioned this earlier, but this really reminds me of the last girl I liked and seriously, even though we used to talk every day online and through texting for more than a month, she thought I was clingy after we stopped talking as frequently. And that was definitely something that changed how she looked at me.

But I had the same issue of fearing the loss of her and was basically expecting it to happen from the start, but that's really not a good way to go about things. You have to learn how to fill your time and thoughts with other things because there will be times where you won't or can't speak for a couple of days and you have to keep yourself from freaking out or thinking "he doesn't like me anymore" or stuff like that. Wait and if he doesn't respond, just keep waiting until tomorrow or the next day. You especially have to wait after that last text you sent.
 
yall keep telling her not to, but i have a feeling you're going to do it anyways AF
 
At least wait a day or so. You sent that second text late last night (early this morning?), you said he was at work ... At least give him a chance to respond.

If you don't hear something in a couple of days, then shoot him a "hey, how's it going" text.
 
Let him text you AF. He will, eventually.
 
After your friend left, I would have put the moves on her and definitely would have done the whole patented "What are we going to do about this?"

Well I do kinda like the girl myself, the problem is that she's kind of the typical flirt and get attention from guys but not interested in giving it back types. I learned that the hard way when she got me caught up in it once before.
 
No, not tonight. I have to study for finals tonight. But I'm for sure going to try soon.
 
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