A New "Official" Relationship Advice Thread

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No, not tonight. I have to study for finals tonight. But I'm for sure going to try soon.
I tell you what. Next time you see him break it in a playful way first. Like slap his butt, pinch it, fix or play with his hair...something that invades his personal space in a less formal way than a hug. It's low risk because it doesn't mean anything really but you'll get to see his reaction. If he freaks out just say he's being oversensitive or that you were just horsing around. Whatever. If he gets into it a bit you'll know you can take it further.
 
I remember the last girl I liked was pretty touchy and I never pointed it out to her, but it weirded me out a bit because I like my personal space, plus we weren't even dating or anything.

But if I was dating a girl and we didn't have any physical stuff going on for a while, I think I'd welcome her doing something to break that barrier.
 
If he freaks out just say he's being oversensitive or that you were just horsing around.

I second initiating some physical contact, but if he reacts like this, don't freak out.

I had a guy once accuse me of initiating a make-out session (I swear he did since I am the furthest thing from an initiator), and he did it in a very disapproving way. Pretty much shot my confidence. So if he does shy away or act oddly be sure to stay confident.
 
Seriously. I would never have a problem with half the stuff getting mentioned in here.
 
Seriously ... If you girls are with guys that don't like you touching them ... ummm ... there might be another issue.
 
Seriously. I would never have a problem with half the stuff getting mentioned in here.
A lot of people are anxious about physical contact. That's hardly an uncommon problem. You and I may not be, but I know many, many, many people who are.
 
Wow. Just.....wow.

I've never turned down a woman who wanted to initiate physical contact the 3 times in my life when it happened....LOL
 
Ha! My wife doesn't even like to accidentally brush past me because it will set me off.
 
Same.

Once she steps foot in the house, she better look both ways cause she just entered my mating area.
 
A lot of people are anxious about physical contact. That's hardly an uncommon problem. You and I may not be, but I know many, many, many people who are.


I can see them being intimidated and even not ready for it. I just can't see myself reacting negatively if it all goes down without a hitch.


Wow. Just.....wow.

I've never turned down a woman who wanted to initiate physical contact the 3 times in my life when it happened....LOL


It's a rare occasion but always welcome. Unless of course it's a complete stranger or someone you shouldn't be fooling around with.
 
I've also paused video games when sex was initiated.

Paused video games!!!
 
Nothing wrong with that ...


Done it too and movies, shows, etc
 
Same.

Once she steps foot in the house, she better look both ways cause she just entered my mating area.

[cues ambient jungle noises]

I've also paused video games when sex was initiated.

Paused video games!!!

Darn it... I only got kisses during the save screens :csad:

A girl once came onto me during the half time of a Superbowl. I missed the third quarter!

He was a Packers fan, that's not heard of. :o

Considering he now goes by the moniker 'The Lutheran' for all my stories, I think we know what his issue was...
 
Quite frankly Football always comes first. I made a girl wait until the end of Sunday Night Football (regular season), even though I knew she wanted it right away. She got it, but I still wanted to watch the game first. It wasn't even a Patriots game. If it's the Patriots, I'd make Mila Kunis wait.
 
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I've started to move my hand toward his to try and hold it before, but every time I do I flash back:

I was 16-17. I had a massive crush on the son of my mom's friend. My mom and I went to a baseball game with her friend and his family. The son, Corey, and I had gotten pretty close over the previous weeks and I decided to make a move during the game. I tried to hold his hand. My fingers had barely touched his when he jerked away and said "Don't touch me!" angrily. I sobbed for over an hour after we got home. Every single time I move to hold Ephraim's hand, I see Corey's angry expression.

I don't think I have anything I'm supremely good at. I think I'm a decent enough singer and I love to sing. Ever since I was a young child I've received pretty much nothing but praise for my voice. But ever since I started posting YouTube videos (some of which included me singing) I've been questioning my skills a bit.

See the difference there is you weren't dating yet, doing the kind of flirting touching before dating can be rejected. The guy you're dating though obviously likes you so he's going to be much more receptive.

No, not tonight. I have to study for finals tonight. But I'm for sure going to try soon.

Do or do not, there is no try.

I've also paused video games when sex was initiated.

Paused video games!!!

That's actually one of my girlfriend's go to moves to get me to stop playing video games or watching a show she doesn't like and it works 99% of the time.
 
It's a rare occasion but always welcome. Unless of course it's a complete stranger or someone you shouldn't be fooling around with.

Complete strangers would be most welcome! But beyond blood relations, what other women shouldn't you be fooling around with?
 
I can see them being intimidated and even not ready for it. I just can't see myself reacting negatively if it all goes down without a hitch.
I'm generally pleasant, unless I feel threatened, which in keeping with the topic I can't say I'm usually threatened by a woman. I'm a lot stronger than most of them:oldrazz:. There are very, very hot girls whom I'm friends with that I simply wouldn't feel right having sex with, or really anything intimate. I was just thinking about that driving to work. Although honestly, I think all of them feel about the same.
It's a rare occasion but always welcome. Unless of course it's a complete stranger or someone you shouldn't be fooling around with.
This would be different for me. It's not rare for girls to come onto me anymore. I'm rather numb to it. I'm glad I am because from my perspective it really helps. I make my affection scarce, and I usually never accept an offer right away because usually the next one is better anyways :cwink:.

I actually aped this strategy from a girl named Hannah, who is a very attractive platonic friend of mine. I'd see her throw herself at guys when we were out at clubs, just literally ho' it up. Then I'd see that same guy, broke as sh**, get into a Taxi cab alone, every single time. I don't even think she ever made out with these guys. It would frustrate the crap out of them too. Last girl I did it too, we had sex twice, and she spent over 130 dollars on me in a week...she had no job and was a student. I never spent a dime on her. In fact over the past month I've been with 4 women, and spent collectively $25 on them.

Now, of course there's a difference here between someone new (or new-ish) 'coming on to you' and someone who is your girlfriend/boyfriend.
Complete strangers would be most welcome! But beyond blood relations, what other women shouldn't you be fooling around with?
Complete strangers are the sh**. If you don't like them, you never have to see them again! Perfection!! I'd really rather not get messy with someone I'd still see on a regular basis.
 
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I'm coming in and going completely off-topic here butttttt...
Christmas is not only a time for family and friends, but also romance! I suggest really pushing yourself to take that step further in finding the right person for you this Christmas!
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He was a Packers fan, that's not heard of. :o

Considering he now goes by the moniker 'The Lutheran' for all my stories, I think we know what his issue was...


Yeah , that and being a cheesehead.

Complete strangers would be most welcome! But beyond blood relations, what other women shouldn't you be fooling around with?

I guess I was referring to cheating. The stranger thing can be a good sometimes but it can be risky.

This would be different for me. It's not rare for girls to come onto me anymore. I'm rather numb to it. I'm glad I am because from my perspective it really helps. I make my affection scarce, and I usually never accept an offer right away because usually the next one is better anyways :cwink:.
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I always try to initiate but sometime they'll beat me to it. I'm too nice though. If a girl approaches me that I don't like I'll still talk to her for a couple minutes and then find an out. Unless I'm really drunk , then sometimes I can be an a-hole.

This whole topic made me think of a weird relationship I had. The girl always wanted me to initiate sex and so sometimes I'd be minding my business watching tv while we watched t.v. and she'd get mad I wasn't trying anything on her.
 
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