Official Relationship Thread: The Good, the Bad and the Ugly

[hopefuldreamer]

It sounds like to me that you're worrying about something that hasn't even happened yet. All of the things you pointed out that you're worried about would completely depend on the individual. You could meet someone who has never been in a relationship and just the idea of what that person thinks a relationship should be could be enough to drive you insane... at the same time, you could meet someone who has been in many relationships, and they could be one of the most open-minded individuals you'll ever meet...

... luck of the draw... and a good sense of an individual's character... those are the only things that will get you past those fears.

This is all being blown way up. I'm not 'worried' about anything. I don't have any relationships on the cards to worry about

We were talking about whether a guy being a virgin would be a put off, and all i'm saying is why that inexperience could be a positive rather than a negative. I was just trying to explain why not all women would go 'OMG a virgin, no thanks', and there are plenty of other reasons too.

But I can see what you're saying, and you're right. Someone who has never been in a relationship might be equally as dissapointed by how slowly i'd wanna take it, whereas someone who has been in a lot of heavy relationships might find slowing down a nice change.

 

[crounsa810]

So, just wondering....


If you're talking to someone, just you two, and they mention a movie and how it looks really good and they really wanna see it, that means.....?

 

[terry78]

So, just wondering....


If you're talking to someone, just you two, and they mention a movie and how it looks really good and they really wanna see it, that means.....?

It means they really want to see it. Duh.

 

[Erzengel]

So, just wondering....


If you're talking to someone, just you two, and they mention a movie and how it looks really good and they really wanna see it, that means.....?

they want you to whip it out.

 

[TheWatcher]

It means they want to see the movie.

Invite said person to see it with you.

 

[The Squirrel]

It's obviously a ploy to get you to invite them to a completely different film.

 

[crounsa810]

Let's say you didn't pick up on the hint because you were working and tired as hell and not functioning properly..?

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Let's say you didn't pick up on the hint because you were working and tired as hell and not functioning properly..?

Then I suppose, text said person and say "Hey, I'm free this weekend, let's go see <insert said movie here>"

 

[The Squirrel]

Just bring up casually next time you see her. "Hey are you still interested in seeing <insert film>? I was going to see it on <insert day>, wanna join me?"

 

[knowsbleed]

Let's say you didn't pick up on the hint because you were working and tired as hell and not functioning properly..?

It might mean that you deserve to die alone.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

[YT]FONN-0uoTHI[/YT]

 

[Slushy]

So...I'm getting married. Me and the fiancee decided to be one of the thousands of couples tying the knot in 2 weeks on 12-12-12. Wish me luck!

 

[Erzengel]

Good Luck.

 

[knowsbleed]

Good luck on your first mini-van purchase.

 

[pavlovs dogfood]

Broke up with my girlfriend two days ago. Chicks, man.

 

[knowsbleed]

The best time to be a ****e is right after the break up. It's therapeutic. I'd take advantage of the moment if I were you.

 

[Nave 'Torment']

So...I'm getting married. Me and the fiancee decided to be one of the thousands of couples tying the knot in 2 weeks on 12-12-12. Wish me luck!

Sounds neat. Goodluck Blackheart have a happy one.

 

[steintym]

So...I'm getting married. Me and the fiancee decided to be one of the thousands of couples tying the knot in 2 weeks on 12-12-12. Wish me luck!

I wish I would have thought of something like that ... I can never remember my anniversary date.

 

[TheWatcher]

Good luck Blackheart! Wish ya the best.


So I have a small predicament, there is this girl that I reallllly like, but before we can hang out, I have to meet her parents(They are super Christian, which I think makes her mad.)

Any advice?

 

[steintym]

Yikes ... Good luck. That's a lot of pressure right up front.

Probably not that big of a deal, though, to stop by to pick her up and meet the parents.

I guess a lot depends on what you mean by "hang out". Are you talking about a date? It's probably not that uncommon for a parent to want to meet the person that will be taking his/her daughter out on a date.

 

[TheWatcher]

It's not a date. It probably will be the second or third time we hang out. We have really hit it off.

 

[SpideyVille]

So I have a small predicament, there is this girl that I reallllly like, but before we can hang out, I have to meet her parents(They are super Christian, which I think makes her mad.)

Any advice?

Hmm, I think it depends more on how she feels. I mean, if she doesn't follow their beliefs or isn't as strong about it as they are, then it shouldn't be a problem because the parents probably want to make sure you're a good guy and not some tattooed biker that is going to kidnap their daughter and have your way with her. But as long as you make a good impression, it shouldn't be too much of an issue.

BUT, and this was the case in my church when I was there, but there was no such thing as dating. You had to talk and pray together first, and then, if "God" and the pastors and parents approved it, then you could go out on dates, but only with a chaperone, just to make sure there is no funny business going on. So you might want to find out what the deal is with that first and if you're okay with it. But don't sweat it. As long as you know the girl likes you, then meeting the parents shouldn't be so bad.

 

[steintym]

It's hard to tell without more details, but it probably doesn't hurt to meet the P's and say "hi", especially since it seems like you would like to pursue this further.

 

[TheWatcher]

Hmm, I think it depends more on how she feels. I mean, if she doesn't follow their beliefs or isn't as strong about it as they are, then it shouldn't be a problem because the parents probably want to make sure you're a good guy and not some tattooed biker that is going to kidnap their daughter and have your way with her. But as long as you make a good impression, it shouldn't be too much of an issue.

BUT, and this was the case in my church when I was there, but there was no such thing as dating. You had to talk and pray together first, and then, if "God" and the pastors and parents approved it, then you could go out on dates, but only with a chaperone, just to make sure there is no funny business going on. So you might want to find out what the deal is with that first and if you're okay with it. But don't sweat it. As long as you know the girl likes you, then meeting the parents shouldn't be so bad.

You're probably right. I am no one they should be worried about. She's worth going through this awfully awkward situation. Thanks for the advice guys.

 

[steintym]

Good luck, don't be creepy t: