So Portuguese guy stepped up?
Basically, we were at my birthday bash (which was just so incredible btw) and we got talking about that conversation and he said he's felt weird about things ever since... and I was just like 'Oh thank god it's not just me, that WAS a crappy conversation, right?'
I asked him if he thought maybe we were just playing relationship chicken, and he agreed, so I asked if he wanted to just cut the ******** and make it official and exclusive... and he said that he'd like that.
So since, he's made a point of mentioning the word boyfriend in conversation a couple of times, and even came back from seeing a friend saying 'I told him I had to go see my girlfriend'... and he tells me this with a big smile on his face and gives me a kiss, so I take is a sign he is actually into this and not just going along with it cause I want it.
So yeah... I guess... I have a boyfriend! Yay me!
Optimists always magically get what they want first.
I think this one has happened because i've been really patient and accepting of whatever really. I mean, I have no idea where it's going or whether it'll even work...
But the nice thing is, he's such an easy person to spend time with.
I mean, I spent the day with him and about 15 other friends on Saturday. Then went back to mine with him and a friend who was staying with me Sat night. Then the three of us lay around watching films Sunday till 4pm... then after that, me and him just didn't seem to want to part. So I ended up going to his and doing pretty much the same thing until 3pm Monday
It helps that we just have such similar taste in everything.
Found out yesterday that we both have the same number one favorite film (Donnie Darko) and generally just like the same kinds of films and tv. We like the same kind of music. We both grew up a bit unpopular and got into metal and weed etc.
It makes it so much easier to spend a lot of time with someone doing 'nothing' if your versions of nothing are the same.
