This was me saying I try to make up in other ways to say I’m not selfish.Wait this is a family reunion? With respect, personally, that's not a vacation. LOL.
I hate to break it to you, but this statement:This was me saying I try to make up in other ways to say I’m not selfish.
, just don’t like vacationing which was going to be later this year, but this Friday I’m driving to pick up her mom hours away and then sat doing her reunion
Is selfish. You just did one selfless act to try to outweigh a selfish one. That’s not necessarily bad. But a compromise only works if both people agree to it.why should I have to use my time? I thought I was making enough sacrifice going although I’ve made it clear I don’t like to vacation. She said 3 days I said 2 and thought I was meeting in middle.
I'll say this, if you're happy and she's happy, who cares what strangers say on the internet.Maybe it’s the influence I get off of here, but considering moving on. Then you all will be happy once I’m alone again
I’m never going to be happy with anyone, but i want a family one day, so have to have a partnerI'll say this, if you're happy and she's happy, who cares what strangers say on the internet.
However, you don't sound happy. In the 5-6 pages you've posted here, I don't think you said one thing you are happy about. The only 2 things that I'm sure about you actually enjoy doing, is working out and your alone time. If that is what makes you happy, and you can find someone who's okay/happy/supportive of that, then you shouldn't have anything to complain about.
You don't think that's a red flag? If your gf ever came to this site, do you think she'd be okay with everything you wrote?I’m never going to be happy with anyone, but i want a family one day, so have to have a partner.
No but these are my personal thoughts. The truth in my soul. If you dig deep into most peoples soul there truth would be uglyYou don't think that's a red flag? If your gf ever came to this site, do you think she'd be okay with everything you wrote?
It'd be naive to say that wasn't true. I'm sure there are tons of people that are in loveless relationships which is why divorce is so high. You said you loved her a few posts ago and you do like her. I'm sure a lot of people if they read that their SO said someething like that, wrote that would be hurt. I'm sure you'd be hurt if you saw a text from her to one of her friends/family saying something along those lines. I feel like year is enough time to gauge if someone makes you happy or not. Unless you are just "gloom and doom" about all relationships, and figure that one day she won't make you happy.No but these are my personal thoughts. The truth in my soul. If you dig deep into most peoples soul there truth would be ugly
Thank youI’ve been thinking about this question. It’s a good one
Not professionally. But we work together a lot on house projects. We have painted, laid flooring, laid tile…we do lots of projects together.Thank you
Do you worknwith your wife?
Feeling genuine trust and similarity of beliefs.This is yet another of my many questions for alll: what's your green flag? Personally and someone's.
Maybe it's because opposites attracts.Need to rant:
Can someone tell me why we can know that someone is completely wrong for you and still be deeply attracted to them? Every ounce of common sense tells you to stay away but damn if that physical attraction isn’t intoxicating.
My coworker has nothing in common with me: she is loud, has a short temper and I have no idea what we would talk about. Still, there’s no denying she’s cute, flirty, has a great chest and probably is fire in bed. That’s the word that best describes her, firey. That’s the problem, I have no intention of getting burned.
Common sense will win…but this really sucks. Shouldn’t I be repulsed by how different we are? Why the Hell am I so attracted to her despite it all?