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Isn’t this all like, relative though? I mean, granted, if a girl just wanted to handshake at the end of the date, that message would be loud and clear for me, but it’s not always as clear cut as it could be.
I often figure that a hug at the end of a date prompts further interest, but that hasn’t always been the case; sometimes I’ve been ghosted afterwards. Likewise, I have had follow up dates with people who haven’t even shook my hand.
My point; no two people are the same, and every person is going to wrap a date up different depending on their circumstances and the kinda’ person that they are.
I guess it’s more during the date that it should be obvious whether there’s a spark or not, as, looking back on all the dates I’ve been on, that’s mostly always been obvious from the initial dates as to whether a second date is going to follow.
No, it's the fact that she said "thanks for your time". Hahaha, anyone and I mean anyone who doesn't understand a response that is meant for something like a job interview used at the end of a date is a no go is incredibly clueless. The handshake alone is fine, it's that specific comment. Which is why she used it.