Well what about long term? It was bad before pregnancy and I brought up all the time. But yes I know my options are have a very very low seed life and marry my family together or selfishly not if I truly can’t
Good questions. My advice from 25 years of marriage: don’t weaponize sex. Don’t let it play a part of your arguments. Try to approach it without expectation and just concentrate on supporting her as much as possible. The more she feels loved and cared for, the better that your sex life will be.
I don’t want to weaponize sex and say all of my stress is from lack of sex but I do feel i owe it to both of us to be true to my feelings. Not like I’m asking for it everyday, but when I say it’s low it’s astronomically low and I don’t know if I can spend my life living like that.
And i totally do! But... a little bit of spice every now and then, it's necessary.Why you draggin me into this? I thought you loved me......
With lubrication and imagination I’ll wait all week then nothing will come then on that day she’ll say let’s go but I’ll be out of mojo and then she’ll look all disappointed. Basically i have to be ready 100 percent of the time 365 to keep her happy. And wind up like a clock until then. Thank you all for advice
OK. Fair enough....
Huh....my motto has always been "The second time is a charm". I never liked that other saying.....
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