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The Relationship Thread: Because Superhero Forums are Full of Sexperts!

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Well, apparently it was all a test, to see how I'd react. It was actually something he had considered doing, but most likely wasn't going to do. He just wanted to test me, and I failed. So now he needs to think about things. Guess we'll see what happens.

It's a classic s**t test.

Problem is that's usually what *****ey women do. Tell him to quit acting like a b***h.


While a bit more harsh than I would have worded it, Anubis pretty much summed up my thoughts on that. It's relatively normal for a girl to test a guy at some point, but when the guy is doing stuff like that, it's very odd..
 
It's Friday, Angel. Go have a few drinks.
 
Well, apparently it was all a test, to see how I'd react. It was actually something he had considered doing, but most likely wasn't going to do. He just wanted to test me, and I failed. So now he needs to think about things. Guess we'll see what happens.
How did you actually fail?

I would think you would have passed because you didn't want him involved in a criminal activity?

And, I can't say we all don't test our sig others. I'm sure if Erzette ever won the lottery, I'd have an attractive woman test my fidelity. :o
 
All of what you're saying is what I've been telling him. He's not listening to a word I say, and yet supposedly I'm the "ignorant" one.

Well, apparently it was all a test, to see how I'd react. It was actually something he had considered doing, but most likely wasn't going to do. He just wanted to test me, and I failed. So now he needs to think about things. Guess we'll see what happens.

**** that. Dump him. This "test" is unfair, immature, belittling, and likely an after-the-fact lie anyway. Even if you don't want to, walk out on him so he gets the picture loud and clear that this is not even remotely okay. Maybe it'll snap him out of it. This isn't about weed anymore, this about his lack of respect for you.
 
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I truly do not understand why anyone, male or female, want or need to play games like this. Life is difficult enough sometimes without throwing this kind of s**t around...
 
How did you actually fail?

I would think you would have passed because you didn't want him involved in a criminal activity?

And, I can't say we all don't test our sig others. I'm sure if Erzette ever won the lottery, I'd have an attractive woman test my fidelity. :o

No offense, but that'd be an incredibly petty, childish, and immature thing for Erzette to do.
 
The ex I dated in high school would borrow phones and text me acting like some random girl that had a crush on me to see how I would react. It was pretty ridiculous and I knew better. She also liked to look through my text convos, I hate how I let her off the hook so easily back then. Now days if I date someone and they want to be like that I'm gonna make it clear if your gonna be overly cautious and waste time in nonsense I want no part of it.

I can be protective too but I'm not gonna go through her phone messages the second I get her phone.
 
If either of us won the lottery, I'm not sure if testing each other with attractive people is really the useful thing to do in that situation. :funny:

I agree that relationship "tests" are stupid. It causes unnecessary grief and you bet the "tested" partner won't forget it. Now you've got a tally of terrible things your partner has done to you, and that's no way for a relationship to be healthy.

You test your relationship through things that just happen. When I was ill for a long time and couldn't eat out and wasn't very active for a year, that was a test of our relationship. But I sure didn't concoct it. It has to be honest. Tricking your partner is just THE wrong way to go about it.
 
I always like the one from the Bronx Tale where you open up the door for your date and if she didn't unlock your side. Of course with automatic unlocking of doors, that's not really possible with newer cars.

If I justified **** tests in the past, I don't remember. I think a lot of people are messed up enough, or insecure that they almost can't help themselves. But, I don't think in terms of Angel's bf elaborate ruse that' that's called for. Again if I said anything, it'd be something minor. :huh:
 
I always like the one from the Bronx Tale where you open up the door for your date and if she didn't unlock your side. Of course with automatic unlocking of doors, that's not really possible with newer cars.

If I justified **** tests in the past, I don't remember. I think a lot of people are messed up enough, or insecure that they almost can't help themselves. But, I don't think in terms of Angel's bf elaborate ruse that' that's called for. Again if I said anything, it'd be something minor. :huh:
Well that's not the kind of test we're talking about - that's not a concoction. It's just an observation. Like how you observe how much your date tips the waitstaff or go out without a pushup bra to see if he's still interested. :oldrazz:

I agree that only incredibly insecure people concoct elaborate ruses as "relationship tests." When s*** happens to you (and it inevitably will), that's the relationship test. Otherwise, it really makes you wonder what his expectations were in the first place, if everything was hunky dory and then he started feeling insecure that Angel_Faerie wouldn't break the law for him and lied to her. What a loser.
 
If either of us won the lottery, I'm not sure if testing each other with attractive people is really the useful thing to do in that situation. :funny:

I agree that relationship "tests" are stupid. It causes unnecessary grief and you bet the "tested" partner won't forget it. Now you've got a tally of terrible things your partner has done to you, and that's no way for a relationship to be healthy.

You test your relationship through things that just happen. When I was ill for a long time and couldn't eat out and wasn't very active for a year, that was a test of our relationship. But I sure didn't concoct it. It has to be honest. Tricking your partner is just THE wrong way to go about it.

:up:

I always like the one from the Bronx Tale where you open up the door for your date and if she didn't unlock your side. Of course with automatic unlocking of doors, that's not really possible with newer cars.

If I justified **** tests in the past, I don't remember. I think a lot of people are messed up enough, or insecure that they almost can't help themselves. But, I don't think in terms of Angel's bf elaborate ruse that' that's called for. Again if I said anything, it'd be something minor. :huh:

Maybe it wasn't you. Maybe it wasn't anybody. But I feel like I recall someone justifying "**** tests" and blaming the "loser" of the **** test for "losing", instead of the person who laid out the **** test in the first place for being an immature, petty, and childish prick.
 
Well I found out why the guy i was talking to became so distant. He was with someone. My first question to him before I even gave him my number was if he had a gf, he said he didnt and had gone through a break up two months ago. I'm just not even wasting my time, deleted him from my phone. we had some bogus ass talk about "being honest" when we met. The sad thing is his gr is married and wont leave her hubs for him. FML. some people may settle for being second best, i refuse.
 
Few months ago, I wrote on here about delivering to a store and a woman at another business offered me a water and seemed friendly and what not. She yelled at me from a distance as she sat outside hers and just enjoyed the weather and watching me work. I wrote how I blew it by not accepting a drink and getting to know her better. Today I delivered in the area again. She was doing the same enjoying the weather. I initiated conversation stating how hard it was to deliver and she agreed. A couple minutes later I left and got to work not wanting conversation to stall. It rained she went inside. As I went to my truck she went in the same direction, I stated "perfect' mentioning the rain. She laughed and said, I know right couldn't wait 30 minutes. She got out the rain, and I let her even though I wanted to properly introduce myself. I wanted to ask her out then and there, but thought another time when I deliver there would be better. What do you all think, I believe she is just a friendly person. Next time though I will get more personal, ya dig.
 
Well I found out why the guy i was talking to became so distant. He was with someone. My first question to him before I even gave him my number was if he had a gf, he said he didnt and had gone through a break up two months ago. I'm just not even wasting my time, deleted him from my phone. we had some bogus ass talk about "being honest" when we met. The sad thing is his gr is married and wont leave her hubs for him. FML. some people may settle for being second best, i refuse.

That is quite screwed up.
 
Went on a double date last night..Went really well for my friend, but my date spent the entire time pouting about some mysterious thing that had happened earlier yesterday and texting her friends.:dry::argh:
 
Texting on a date to me is the ultimate sign of could care less about my date.
 
Well I found out why the guy i was talking to became so distant. He was with someone. My first question to him before I even gave him my number was if he had a gf, he said he didnt and had gone through a break up two months ago. I'm just not even wasting my time, deleted him from my phone. we had some bogus ass talk about "being honest" when we met. The sad thing is his gr is married and wont leave her hubs for him. FML. some people may settle for being second best, i refuse.
Could be worse. He could have strung you along and used you to make his gf jealous so she'd leave her husband for him. :o So it sucks as it is, but it's for the better and you didn't waste too much of your time...

And LMAO that was some bogus ass talk. :lmao: Why must people be so stupid.

Went on a double date last night..Went really well for my friend, but my date spent the entire time pouting about some mysterious thing that had happened earlier yesterday and texting her friends.:dry::argh:
Sounds so high school. :funny: A lot of girls think they just have to be hot and guys will fall all over themselves for them.
 
Anita, I need your thoughts on my earlier post a few up. If you don't mind.
 
Needing advice. This girl isn't actually my girlfriend, but we're very close and there isn't really any other thread that fits.

So last weekend we had this massive argument because I felt like she didn't want to talk to me at school, and basically said that there was no point being friends if this would keep happening (two times before we've had a big fight and stopped talking for a few months, all in the span of this year). Then she said that she doesn't want me to worry so much about her - she's had some health issues and other stuff recently - and basically got annoyed that I am worrying, which understandably pissed me off. Even though she went on to say that I'm "completely different from other guys" because I "actually make things better". Anyway we made up and things went good this week.

About an hour ago I got a Snapchat from her, replying to something I sent her a few hours before saying that she was in a bad mood. I asked what was up and she wouldn't tell me "because I'll worry", and I didn't respond.

It's just made me confused and irritated and obviously worry even more. What should I do? :csad:
 
Texting on a date to me is the ultimate sign of could care less about my date.
Yup. The other guy and girl hit it off, but I shall likely be replacing her next time.
Could be worse. He could have strung you along and used you to make his gf jealous so she'd leave her husband for him. :o So it sucks as it is, but it's for the better and you didn't waste too much of your time...

And LMAO that was some bogus ass talk. :lmao: Why must people be so stupid.


Sounds so high school. :funny: A lot of girls think they just have to be hot and guys will fall all over themselves for them.
It was so annoying.

Needing advice. This girl isn't actually my girlfriend, but we're very close and there isn't really any other thread that fits.

So last weekend we had this massive argument because I felt like she didn't want to talk to me at school, and basically said that there was no point being friends if this would keep happening (two times before we've had a big fight and stopped talking for a few months, all in the span of this year). Then she said that she doesn't want me to worry so much about her - she's had some health issues and other stuff recently - and basically got annoyed that I am worrying, which understandably pissed me off. Even though she went on to say that I'm "completely different from other guys" because I "actually make things better". Anyway we made up and things went good this week.

About an hour ago I got a Snapchat from her, replying to something I sent her a few hours before saying that she was in a bad mood. I asked what was up and she wouldn't tell me "because I'll worry", and I didn't respond.

It's just made me confused and irritated and obviously worry even more. What should I do? :csad:

Seems like she's the kinda girl that embracing the "This too shall pass" attitude seems like the best option, but that's just my opinion.
 
Hyde, are you sure this friendship that you think is close is only close to you? :huh:
 
Few months ago, I wrote on here about delivering to a store and a woman at another business offered me a water and seemed friendly and what not. She yelled at me from a distance as she sat outside hers and just enjoyed the weather and watching me work. I wrote how I blew it by not accepting a drink and getting to know her better. Today I delivered in the area again. She was doing the same enjoying the weather. I initiated conversation stating how hard it was to deliver and she agreed. A couple minutes later I left and got to work not wanting conversation to stall. It rained she went inside. As I went to my truck she went in the same direction, I stated "perfect' mentioning the rain. She laughed and said, I know right couldn't wait 30 minutes. She got out the rain, and I let her even though I wanted to properly introduce myself. I wanted to ask her out then and there, but thought another time when I deliver there would be better. What do you all think, I believe she is just a friendly person. Next time though I will get more personal, ya dig.

You can just ask for her number so you don't worry about stalled conversation. Just ask her for her number and you can call her or text her sometime.
 
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