The Relationship Thread: Because Superhero Forums are Full of Sexperts!

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Seriously? Never seen a TV show where the hot guy is 'tall, dark and handsome'? :huh:
I would die around Matt Bomer, I swear. Just be dead from too much hotness. My heart would just stop cold.

It just so happens that the hubs is blonde and blue-eyed. Usually the blonde surfer dudes (he isn't a surfer dude or even a skater dude though he skateboards) don't do it for me.

The adorkable nerds though....:atp:
 
:funny: I think that's a bit too far.

I'd rather ask myself 'What would Lois Lane do'... :)



Seriously? Never seen a TV show where the hot guy is 'tall, dark and handsome'? :huh:

Haha, that works too.

Occasionally yes. But it seems like the male leads who I most associate with and the leads that stink with girls are always average height and dark hair, like me.
Tom from 500 Days of Summer,
Ted from HIMYM,
Chuck from, Chuck. (Although he did EVENTUALLY end up with
Sarah
, spoiler alert.)
Xander from Buffy,
etc.
Although I have a lot in common with Peter Parker, but he only got the girl 'cause he has superpowers.:oldrazz:
 
I would die around Matt Bomer, I swear. Just be dead from too much hotness. My heart would just stop cold.

It just so happens that the hubs is blonde and blue-eyed. Usually the blonde surfer dudes (he isn't a surfer dude or even a skater dude though he skateboards) don't do it for me.

The adorkable nerds though....:atp:

You know he's gay right..?:oldrazz:


I wanted Matt Bomer to play Batman though. He looks a lot like Henry Cavill too so it would have been perfect, but oh well. I'm excited to see what Affleck will do with the role.
 
You know he's gay right..?:oldrazz:
Of course. Doesn't mean I can't think he's hot. :p

Also, casting has very little to do with real life popularity. TV and movie actresses all look anorexic, but I'm just about that skinny and I'm still not popular with the guys. Most guys prefer girls with some meat on their bones.
 
Of course. Doesn't mean I can't think he's hot. :p

Also, casting has very little to do with real life popularity. TV and movie actresses all look anorexic, but I'm just about that skinny and I'm still not popular with the guys. Most guys prefer girls with some meat on their bones.

I prefer really skinny girls. Makes me feel like Im strong if that makes sense. The girl I was all head over heels for is 5'3 and 110.
 
I prefer really skinny girls. Makes me feel like Im strong if that makes sense. The girl I was all head over heels for is 5'3 and 110.
LOL dat male ego. :hehe:

Looks can be very deceiving. I'm that skinny but I can squat more than my husband's body weight. He isn't intimidated - he's impressed. And that's why he's my hubs. :hrt:
 
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LOL dat male ego. :hehe:

Looks can be very deceiving. I'm that skinny but I can squat more than my husband's body weight. He isn't intimidated - he's pleased for me. And that's why he's my hubs. :yay:

Hahaha. It's not about her being weak perse. The girl I liked did BJJ and could kick my butt, but I could pick her up and spin her around and all, so I felt manly. :oldrazz:
 
Hahaha. It's not about her being weak perse. The girl I liked did BJJ and could kick my butt, but I could pick her up and spin her around and all, so I felt manly. :oldrazz:
The hubs respects me too much to try that, but I've always wondered if he could. Or maybe he doesn't know if he can pick up that much weight. He only has 15 lbs on me. :funny:
 
The hubs respects me too much to try that, but I've always wondered if he could. Or maybe he doesn't know if he can pick up that much weight. He only has 15 lbs on me. :funny:

I thought girls liked being picked up? :confused: Like when you get married,the guy is supposed to carry the girl into the bedroom.
 
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I didn't stay cause it would have been hard to get home, I could have easily walked home :confused:

I stayed cause... well... it was my birthday, I was having a good time, and I actually kind of liked the guys company...

I'm definitely not going to be hooking up with anyone new like that again, but I figured i'd already gone there with him, so there was no harm in just going for it once more.

Plus... I make bad decisions when i've been drinking.

On a side note, i've actually be talking to my mum today about going to a meeting. I mean, i'm not addicted to alcohol on like a daily basis thing, but I do think i'd be better off removing it from my life, and I definitely need help doing that.

I just hope you're being "careful". Also, a lot of people blame alcohol for bad behavior and sometimes keep using it as a crutch because it can be an excuse.
 
I thought girls liked being picked up? :confused: Like when you get married,the guy is supposed to carry the girl into the bedroom.
We're not normal and we don't do things because we're "supposed" to do them. :cwink:

I haven't been picked up since I was a young child.
 
We're not normal and we don't do things because we're "supposed" to do them. :cwink:

I haven't been picked up since I was a young child.

Touche. For the record hopefully you know I meant like this:

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Rather than like this:

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:oldrazz:


Idk.. She seemed to enjoy it when I picked her up like that. And if this video is any indication..:oldrazz:
(Kidding, I know it's not an accurate representation.)
[YT]aNd2OIO6BLg[/YT]
 
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Touche. For the record hopefully you know I meant like this:

man%20holding%20woman.png


Rather than like this:

136395131-portrait-of-man-holding-child-gettyimages.jpg



:oldrazz:


Idk.. She seemed to enjoy it when I picked her up like that. And if this video is any indication..:oldrazz:
(Kidding, I know it's not an accurate representation.)
[YT]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNd2OIO6BLg[/YT]
Second image is broken and the YouTube tag only requires what is after the watch?v=

Like [yt ]aNd2OIO6BLg[/ yt] without the spaces. :yay:

Yeah...I guess I give "Touch me and I'll rip your balls off" vibes, because not even guy friends try that kind of thing with me. :funny:

And the hubs figures I can walk like a big girl. :oldrazz:
 
Second image is broken and the YouTube tag only requires what is after the watch?v=

Like [yt ]aNd2OIO6BLg[/ yt] without the spaces. :yay:

Yeah...I guess I give "Touch me and I'll rip your balls off" vibes, because not even guy friends try that kind of thing with me. :funny:

And the hubs figures I can walk like a big girl. :oldrazz:

Good to know.. Just depends on the person I guess.:) And thanks for the heads up. I didn't know that with the Youtube links. This is kind of random, but I'm starting to move on from her at least. I just want someone who really notices when I'm not around. Someone who thinks of me when they wake up and I'm on their mind before they go to sleep. I don't just want to be with someone I love. I want to be with someone who loves me back. It's silly, that I never respected myself enough to realize I should be with someone who appreciates me as much as I appreciate her, but, I realized it now. So, for now, I'm kinda sorta maybe beginning to get over her.:woot:
 
LOL dat male ego. :hehe:

Looks can be very deceiving. I'm that skinny but I can squat more than my husband's body weight. He isn't intimidated - he's impressed. And that's why he's my hubs. :hrt:

It's not really "male ego" tho cuz girls are always talking about how they want guys that can protect them and take care of them... so isn't it then natural for a guy to want to feel in a position to be that protector / provider?
 
It's not really "male ego" tho cuz girls are always talking about how they want guys that can protect them and take care of them... so isn't it then natural for a guy to want to feel in a position to be that protector / provider?

:up:

Precisely good sir.
 
It's not really "male ego" tho cuz girls are always talking about how they want guys that can protect them and take care of them... so isn't it then natural for a guy to want to feel in a position to be that protector / provider?
Eh, depends on the girl. The only girl I know who's even uttered anything about wanting a "provider" is my religious coworker, and even she's a workaholic. :funny:

All of my other friends want/have an equal partner. Yes, it helps having a default escort when you walk around the city at night, but it isn't like they want a guy just to be their bodyguard. But I hang with a bunch of liberal, tomboy feminists. :oldrazz:

I feel loved when the hubs is protective of me, but for the most part, he knows I can take care of myself, and I love that too. If he babied me too much, that would get old reeeeaaally quick.

Also, the way that webhead9707 phrased it, it made it seem like he was only pretending he could protect her. That's the male ego thing coming in. At 6' and 123 lbs, there's not a whole lot he could ACTUALLY do if there was some trouble. :o I already joke almost any man could throw me into a car trunk with one arm, and I'm sure an extra 5 lbs would be nothing. :funny:
 
Eh, depends on the girl. The only girl I know who's even uttered anything about wanting a "provider" is my religious coworker, and even she's a workaholic. :funny:

All of my other friends want/have an equal partner. Yes, it helps having a default escort when you walk around the city at night, but it isn't like they want a guy just to be their bodyguard. But I hang with a bunch of liberal, tomboy feminists. :oldrazz:

I feel loved when the hubs is protective of me, but for the most part, he knows I can take care of myself, and I love that too. If he babied me too much, that would get old reeeeaaally quick.

Also, the way that webhead9707 phrased it, it made it seem like he was only pretending he could protect her. That's the male ego thing coming in. At 6' and 123 lbs, there's not a whole lot he could ACTUALLY do if there was some trouble. :o I already joke almost any man could throw me into a car trunk with one arm, and I'm sure an extra 5 lbs would be nothing. :funny:

I'm trying to bulk up..:oldrazz:

And I mean, I'm fast and I know a lot about combat, and I have a high pain tolerance. So theoretically I could probably do well enough to let her get away hopefully. And obviously it's not like I want an old fashion thing where I'm a breadwinner and she's the princess. I know the princess doesn't need saving anymore, but I still would like to be able to sweep her off her feet and hold her all dramatically.:oldrazz:
 
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Eh, depends on the girl. The only girl I know who's even uttered anything about wanting a "provider" is my religious coworker, and even she's a workaholic. :funny:

All of my other friends want/have an equal partner. Yes, it helps having a default escort when you walk around the city at night, but it isn't like they want a guy just to be their bodyguard. But I hang with a bunch of liberal, tomboy feminists. :oldrazz:

I feel loved when the hubs is protective of me, but for the most part, he knows I can take care of myself, and I love that too. If he babied me too much, that would get old reeeeaaally quick.

Also, the way that webhead9707 phrased it, it made it seem like he was only pretending he could protect her. That's the male ego thing coming in. At 6' and 123 lbs, there's not a whole lot he could ACTUALLY do if there was some trouble. :o I already joke almost any man could throw me into a car trunk with one arm, and I'm sure an extra 5 lbs would be nothing. :funny:

"Depends on the girl"???

That's the entire basis of the "alpha male" element.
 
I'm trying to bulk up..:oldrazz:

And I mean, I'm fast and I know a lot about combat, and I have a high pain tolerance. So theoretically I could probably do well enough to let her get away hopefully. And obviously it's not like I want an old fashion thing where I'm a breadwinner and she's the princess. I know the princess doesn't need saving anymore, but I still would like to be able to sweep her off her feet and hold her all dramatically.:oldrazz:
You're only 16. I know hordes of guys who were crazy-skinny as teens and filled out naturally as they got older. You've got time. :funny:

"Depends on the girl"???

That's the entire basis of the "alpha male" element.
What? :huh:
 

The "provider / protector" bit is the entire basis of why girls are attracted to "alpha males".

It's not about a woman being unable to take care of herself, but the fact that women are attracted to a man that they perceive can protect them and provide for them and their offspring.
 
We're not talking about all women, now, are we? Because that would be a pretty big generalization...
 
The "provider / protector" bit is the entire basis of why girls are attracted to "alpha males".

It's not about a woman being unable to take care of herself, but the fact that women are attracted to a man that they perceive can protect them and provide for them and their offspring.
Or maybe the girl wants someone who can take care of himself, and not have to care for him like he's a kid? :oldrazz:

That's my reason for finding ambition and confidence attractive in a man. I can take care of myself, and I have absolutely zero interest in babying my partner in regular life, in addition to his ego.


For animals, alpha males are the ones who are in the best shape, because they can physically fight off the other males if they get in the way of sexytime. And for animals who don't nurture their young as much as we do (or have our technology), good genetics are far more important than rearing of the offspring. As long as you can feed your babies, you're good to go.

Besides, I thought beta males were supposed to be better fathers, and thus better for long-term relationships? :oldrazz:

Anyway, biological reasons for attraction are kinda dumb explanations, because people are...not animals. :o Besides, genes are less important in humans, because of all the wonderful gadgets we now have. God knows my kind (bookish and glasses-wearing nerd) would have gone extinct had we been dependent on our physical prowess. Now, that's not so important anymore.
 
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