Thebumwhowalks
Superhero
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I don't know about you, but I'm more than a "geek". Sure, I can talk your head off about superheroes, D&D, comics and the like, but I can also offer other opinions on things. I've got a wide range of interests, albeit with geeky stuff making up a large portion of them. It's part of who I am though, and I'm not going to hide that (nor will I be staying in any relationship where it's a problem with the other person). Being who you truly are is the key to any successful relationship, and that's including everything you are.
You're all avoiding the issue that I made about just not focusing on that on the first date, I'm not saying to hide that part of yourself from her all the time.
I just thought there was a chance that SV might go on about the forum or superhero movies a lot, instead of selling himself better by focusing on some real stuff too, like his plans for being a techer, going to college, whatever.
He is on these boards all the time, and it would be easy for him to bang on about it a bit too much.
i think people just hear/read what they want to hear/read from me, instead of listening to what i am actually saying.