The Relationship Thread: Because Superhero Forums are Full of Sexperts! - - - - - - - - - - Part 29

[RetrogradeOrbit]

With your mattress and some clean sheets that you carry around with your for just such occasions

Doesn't everybody do that?

 

[Erzengel]

The place I'm house sitting has an amazing view of the river though. My place... doesn't.

And how many places in that house has a view of said river?

 

[Dark Raven]

Man... people's turn ons never cease to surprise me

Well, it's all about the atmosphere. It's like going to a restaurant. If I want a romantic dinner, then I won't bring someone to eat somewhere like McDonalds or KFC. It would be a place that has a certain ambiance, location, look etc.

And how many places in that house has a view of said river?

Well, the dining room, the bedroom, the riverside balcony.

 

[Anita18]

Well, the dining room, the bedroom, the riverside balcony.

Is this a private river? Because nothing says romantic as a few boaters wolf-whistling at you through the window as you do it with your lady.

 

[Erzengel]

Ambiance can be nice, but you won't be able to necessarily hear the river inside the house AND if it's past 8:00 pm you won't be seeing much either.

Take her out to the balcony for maybe for a drink and then bring her inside.

 

[Dark Raven]

Ambiance can be nice, but you won't be able to necessarily hear the river inside the house AND if it's past 8:00 pm you won't be seeing much either.

Take her out to the balcony for maybe for a drink and then bring her inside.

Oh I don't plan to hear the river. Going out on the balcony was precisely what I had in mind like you said, and then coming back inside. Plus being able to see the river during dinner too.

Is this a private river? Because nothing says romantic as a few boaters wolf-whistling at you through the window as you do it with your lady.

Well the curtains would be closed of course. But the dining room curtains could be left open. It would just kind of kill the mood though after a romantic dinner to suddenly have to pack up and leave and drive her back to my place all the way across town.

 

[ShadowBoxer]

in a row?

Believe if it not but a girl I went to college with brags about sleeping with fifty guys within the span of one month. But yet she gets offended when someone calls out the large number of people she been with.

 

[ShadowBoxer]

Last thing then I am off it it. But I do think it shows great character and will power to save sex for marriage ( especially in this day and age). I think most can agree with that statement regardless of their opinions.

 

[Dark Raven]

BTW, I probably wouldn't dare suggest using someone else's bed now, because the girl may very well have the same reaction as here and think it's disrespectful too, and that would kill the mood anyway.

 

[moviedoors]

Last thing then I am off it it. But I do think it shows great character and will power to save sex for marriage ( especially in this day and age). I think most can agree with that statement regardless of their opinions.

Eh, I don't think it's all that wise. Will power sure, but "great character." Not necessarily. I certainly won't be raising my daughter with the idea that she should save herself for marriage.

 

[TeeKay]

 

[Anita18]

Eh, I don't think it's all that wise. Will power sure, but "great character." Not necessarily. I certainly won't be raising my daughter with the idea that she should save herself for marriage.

IMO people should wait until they meet someone who they feel comfortable with and who respects them. That doesn't have to be a spouse. It doesn't have to wait until marriage.

Equating sexual chastity with willpower is treating it like it's some forbidden fruit. And associating willpower with a person's value isn't healthy either. People have such moral superiority over how much willpower they have vs another person.

 

[Dark Raven]

Do people here ever play smooth jazz saxophone music during sex?

 

[DarkSovereignty]

Yes, I usually play the Jazz Saxophone during sex. It limits the positions taken though.

 

[Schlosser85]

The last time I had sex, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince was playing in the background.

 

[Erzengel]

Yeah, that's my go to movie when I want to set the mood.

 

[Anita18]

Do people here ever play smooth jazz saxophone music during sex?

That's so cliche.

We actually did it to NIN. Is that cliche in a different way?

 

[Warhammer]

Believe if it not but a girl I went to college with brags about sleeping with fifty guys within the span of one month. But yet she gets offended when someone calls out the large number of people she been with.

I'm not going to lie. If one brags about sleeping with fifty people in one month, they don't deserve to be offended if someone calls them a ****. Come on now, that's just common sense. Don't get me wrong. They don't deserve to be called a name merely because they slept with fifty people. As long as it is consensual, there is nothing wrong. However, bragging about it like it's some kind of honor is grounds for somebody to call them out on it. It doesn't matter how liberal one wants to be about it.

It's just not smart.

 

[Warhammer]

The last time I had sex, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince was playing in the background.

Either that was six years ago or it must have been during a monthly ABC Family Potter marathon. I'm hoping it was the latter since there was one last weekend.

 

[moviedoors]

We actually did it to NIN. Is that cliche in a different way?

It totally is, but damn if it doesn't do the trick every time. "Just Like You Imagined" is the sexiest damn song in a 5/4 beat ever.

 

[Dark Raven]

That's so cliche.

We actually did it to NIN. Is that cliche in a different way?

But it would have to be done for a laugh.

I don't know if I could play that sort of thing though, as I'd start analysing the music and saxophone technique.

What is NIN?

 

[Erzengel]

Nine Inch Nails

So when is this big night of yours DR?

 

[Dark Raven]

Nine Inch Nails

So when is this big night of yours DR?

I don't even know if this is happening or not. The original idea of using this place I'm house sitting was in the hope of something potential happening because it's a more romantic setting, but it's by no means a certainty at all. And since using someone else's bed for the deed is evidently a no-no, then it probably won't. There isn't a guest bed as such - I have to use the host's bed to sleep in (with my own bedsheets and mattress protector or course ).

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Take her out to the balcony for maybe for a drink and then bring her inside.

Balcony sex is one I haven't tried but would like to. Especially if it's facing a river and not other balconies

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Last thing then I am off it it. But I do think it shows great character and will power to save sex for marriage ( especially in this day and age). I think most can agree with that statement regardless of their opinions.

You sound like you think it's noble, and those who don't wait are lesser men and women with weak characters

At the end of the day, your feelings about sex are a personal preference.

If you believe sex is sacred and should only be done in certain circumstances that's fine, but it's no different than eating kosher/halal food and shunning mcdonalds to me... there's a bit of will power involved in terms of not joining in with what your friends/most people do, but it's doesn't make you a better person.

When I was saying no to sex before love (up until 20) I never felt it took will power tbh, because it was just natural to me. Saying no was easy and in a lot of ways less scary than actually diving into that pool.