The Relationship Thread: Because Superhero Forums are Full of Sexperts!

[Anita18]

I still live with my parents so all of those still apply.

Good point.

There are concessions you have to make when you're living with your SO that apples when you have roommates too. Or your parents.

 

[Erzengel]

My cat is pretty demanding.

 

[Anita18]

My cat just wants food and hugs. He's pretty easy to please.

 

[Anubis]

You need to stop takin' s**t from Miss Puss Puss.

 

[webhead9707]

Good point.

There are concessions you have to make when you're living with your SO that apples when you have roommates too. Or your parents.

Yeah but when you're married you get sex out of it.

 

[Anita18]

Yeah but when you're married you get sex out of it.

Ideally, yes. Not guaranteed.

 

[Anubis]

Yeah, sex is not a guarantee in Marriage.....some would say it's a guarantee to never have sex again.....but those people are dead inside.

 

[webhead9707]

Ideally, yes. Not guaranteed.

Hahaha, true.

 

[webhead9707]

This is random, but I feel great about things. I watched a cheesy movie called The First Time, and I actually learned a lot from it, weirdly enough.

 

[Ms. Marvel]

This is random, but I feel great about things. I watched a cheesy movie called The First Time, and I actually learned a lot from it, weirdly enough.

Like?

 

[webhead9707]

Like?

We're all just looking for someone a little less freaked out than we are. That's why I liked her, that's why she likes him, and it's why she doesn't like me. The perfect healthy relationship happens when a girl who is less freaked out than the guy, makes the guy brave enough to not be as freaked out anymore, and they balance eachother. Also I read some Spidey comics last night and realized she isn't my Mary Jane. She just sometimes makes me feel the way MJ makes Peter feel.

 

[Anita18]

This is random, but I feel great about things. I watched a cheesy movie called The First Time, and I actually learned a lot from it, weirdly enough.

Hopefully it's more pertinent than "girls like blonde, blue-eyed, muscular surfer dudes."

 

[webhead9707]

Hopefully it's more pertinent than "girls like blonde, blue-eyed, muscular surfer dudes."

Yeah that was me fooling myself, I know.
Although it doesn't hurt to be muscular.
But yeah. It's just about waiting. She isn't the right one, eventually I'll meet my Mary Jane. Or smoke Mary Jane and be happy even though I'm single.t:

I mean don't get me wrong I get lonely sometimes, but it's just something I gotta deal with.

 

[Ms. Marvel]

We're all just looking for someone a little less freaked out than we are. That's why I liked her, that's why she likes him, and it's why she doesn't like me. The perfect healthy relationship happens when a girl who is less freaked out than the guy, makes the guy brave enough to not be as freaked out anymore, and they balance eachother. Also I read some Spidey comics last night and realized she isn't my Mary Jane. She just sometimes makes me feel the way MJ makes Peter feel.

By that logic, does he like someone else? Or are they both equally freaked out?

Also side question, is her bf a blonde muscular surfer dude?

 

[webhead9707]

By that logic, does he like someone else? Or are they both equally freaked out?

Also side question, is her bf a blonde muscular surfer dude?

No I think he just isn't up front about his freaked outness so she doesn't see it. I'm very open and honest about my freaked outness.

Hahaha, no, he isn't. He's a ginger actually.. She's dating someone with no soul. He doesn't surf as far as I know, and he's only slightly more muscular than me.

 

[Erzengel]

How long have they been going out? A few months. Most of us keep our nuances, quirky behaviors under wraps until we unleash the crazy.

Don't tell me you tell someone you've just met everything quirky you do.

 

[Anita18]

Yeah that was me fooling myself, I know.
Although it doesn't hurt to be muscular.
But yeah. It's just about waiting. She isn't the right one, eventually I'll meet my Mary Jane. Or smoke Mary Jane and be happy even though I'm single.t:

That's not true. I have a soft spot for skinny nerds. My (gorgeous) coworker actually likes short and squat guys. You never know.

We're all just looking for someone a little less freaked out than we are. That's why I liked her, that's why she likes him, and it's why she doesn't like me. The perfect healthy relationship happens when a girl who is less freaked out than the guy, makes the guy brave enough to not be as freaked out anymore, and they balance eachother. Also I read some Spidey comics last night and realized she isn't my Mary Jane. She just sometimes makes me feel the way MJ makes Peter feel.

But how does that not lead to a spiral of less freaked-outness, if one partner has to be less freaked out than the other?

Also, the hubs was probably less freaked out than me. Or at least he wasn't dissuaded by my meh-ness and kept on asking me out.

 

[Anita18]

How long have they been going out? A few months. Most of us keep our nuances, quirky behaviors under wraps until we unleash the crazy.

Don't tell me you tell someone you've just met everything quirky you do.

It gets fun when your partner doesn't even realize they're doing a weird/quirky thing.

But this is true. I didn't get to see the "true" hubs until I think we were engaged. At least he got more fun and relaxed instead of anything else.

 

[Ms. Marvel]

I'm attracted to people less freaked out than me. Unfortunately I tend to attract the opposite.

 

[webhead9707]

How long have they been going out? A few months. Most of us keep our nuances, quirky behaviors under wraps until we unleash the crazy.

Don't tell me you tell someone you've just met everything quirky you do.

6 or 7 months yeah, but while I don't tell someone all of my quirks immediately, aside from a couple things, I'm an open book. I mean, after all, I'm talking to you guys about one of the most personal things in my life.

That's not true. I have a soft spot for skinny nerds. My (gorgeous) coworker actually likes short and squat guys. You never know.


But how does that not lead to a spiral of less freaked-outness, if one partner has to be less freaked out than the other?

Also, the hubs was probably less freaked out than me. Or at least he wasn't dissuaded by my meh-ness and kept on asking me out.

Because one person is made braver by the other and so even though he's actually more freaked out than her, (Thus he likes her) he's so into her that he's brave enough to ignore his freaked outness. Make sense at all, in the slightest? I'm kinda making this up as I go along but I think it sounds good.

 

[knowsbleed]

How long have they been going out? A few months. Most of us keep our nuances, quirky behaviors under wraps until we unleash the crazy.

This is true, I thought my ex was perfect until she just went bat **** psycho because I said something about dead beat dads being... well... dead beat dads. I didn't know she had a lot of daddy issues... but I certainly knew after that.

 

[webhead9707]

I'm attracted to people less freaked out than me. Unfortunately I tend to attract the opposite.

Same here! Sucks right?

 

[Erzengel]

6 or 7 months yeah, but while I don't tell someone all of my quirks immediately, aside from a couple things, I'm an open book. I mean, after all, I'm talking to you guys about one of the most personal things in my life.

We're also faceless names on the internet. It's why online dating is sometimes easier than meeting in person. People let down their guard a lot easier.

This is true, I thought my ex was perfect until she just went bat **** psycho because I said something about dead beat dads being... well... dead beat dads. I didn't know she had a lot of daddy issues... but I certainly knew after that.

If she had low self esteem she sounds perfect.

 

[Anita18]

Because one person is made braver by the other and so even though he's actually more freaked out than her, (Thus he likes her) he's so into her that he's brave enough to ignore his freaked outness. Make sense at all, in the slightest? I'm kinda making this up as I go along but I think it sounds good.

I guess it works for teenagers who are freaked out by everything.

 

[Ms. Marvel]

Same here! Sucks right?

Kind of, but I'm off to Uni tomorrow.....so fresh start. t: