And now I've told the story, and I'm totally embarrassed
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I've definitely read that story before. I know because every time I think it's gonna be that she was on her period... and then it's just your finger.
It did sound like he just wanted to have a very "specific" chat about someone's "private areas" and when you weren't available while his blood was flowing, he selfishly got disappointed.
But no, its not sad that you considered that a win. He wanted more, which shows you did something write. HIGH FIVE!!!!
Meh, I slept with him again on my bday. But tbh, the whole situation was a bit *****eish.
When me and my friends arrived he was there chatting to a couple of girls, and looked totally uncomfortable when he saw me... so I just acted totally normal, casually waved.
He came over after a while, sat with us and made conversation with me. He bought me and all my friends a round of shots, and then later in the night invited some of us up to the flat above the pub for drinks and music and stuff.
I asked him why he was being weird and why he'd called the other night. He said he just didn't want me thinking that this could be anything more than sex, and I told him he was being stupid and that i'm not the kind of girl who gets attached like that. So then when I went to leave late in the night, he stopped me and asked me to stay, so I did... but TBH, I was so drunk by that point that the sex just wasn't anywhere near as good.
Next morning, I was feeling hungover and just a bit unsociable so tried to sneak out while he was sleeping... but the whole pub was locked up. So I had to wake him up just to ask for his keys, and he was all like 'just stay and sleep for a bit', but I just wasn't in the mood for cuddling with someone who is so adamantley against me getting feelings for him.
I did text him a couple of days later just saying thanks for a fun birthday, but again, no response.
So I figure screw it, i'm bored with that!
I got on one knee and proposed and she said yes. We then spent the night there where they upgraded us to a suite. (I lucked out because the room was very spacious.) Everything pretty much worked out for me that day.
Fast forward and we will be getting married next year.
That all sounds lovely
Girls can't be nerds, I thought this was common knowledge?
Ahem...
Good luck. If you are able to find a girl that that'll work on, bless you.
However, I don't want to start an argument on social convention or buckling to social pressure, but more women would want a ring.
I want a ring, but I might have to wear it on a necklace. I tend to loose anything on my finger or wrist cause I fiddle with it.
Do women still cook meals everyday when you are together? I ask because I refuse to have anyone do anything for me. I just hate being served/waited on. I always feel weird. I guess because it's weird because I'm not rich or anything. What have I done to deserve that?
I can barely cook for myself everyday, so no I won't be cooking for a man every day... I hope it's something we can share.
But then I see the flipside with my brother. Last night, I came home with his wife and we stopped by the supermarket because she was going to cook. Now I understand that some people want to eat dinner together and stuff, but my brother gets home at about 5pm and his wife is usually there at 8pm, if she doesn't decide to stay late at work, which is what she usually does. But last night, he kept calling her to hurry up and get home to cook for him and the kids, and I kept thinking to myself, why can't he just do something himself. I mean, bad enough he relies on my mom to feed him when he gets home, if she cooks when she's watching the kids, but for him to wait three hours and then try to rush his wife to either cook or bring something from outside for him, I can see why some women would get upset.
Yeah I kind of hate seeing relationships like that. I find it hard not to yell at the women for just taking it.
Hypothetical question: If I'm waiting till marriage to have sex, am I supposed to tell the boy that before we start dating to make sure we're on the same page?
I'd say yes. Not first date, cause too early is a major put off. But after 2 or 3... cause if the guy isn't into that, what's the point in getting attached/hopeful. You may as well just find out.
So I was casually flirting with the 14 year old last night, and she informed be she doesn't like me that way. I can't even get a freaking 14 year old. I quit. I'm so done. Done. Done. Dooooone.
Dude, depending on how attractive you are, the majority of girls out there are going to shoot you down.
I graduated college still a virgin, and I'm a chick. Couldn't even get a single college guy to sleep with me. I think I should have been done then too.
I was in my second year of college, and I lost mine to a guy I loved who turned out to be gay... I should have been done then
If anything tho, i'd say it says a lot about how much easier it is to get laid once you no longer give two hoots about sex or what it meant to you.
What's the point of marriage period? I never plan on it. I'm planning on life isolated. Don't care anymore.
And yet you are still here.
Yup... what is your interest in this thread?
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Congrats!
