The Relationship Thread: Because Superhero Forums are Full of Sexperts! - - Part 31

Ok, so I just called and asked to talk to her. The card she gave me had the name Ashley but the Ashley I talked to wasn't there yesterday. She looked up my name and said I had my haircut by Brandi and she wasn't there.

Never mind, I'm getting the run around.

 

I’ve been working a second job at an animal shelter for about a month. I work with the animals and a cute girl works in the office. I don’t have much contact with her except for punching in and out. Sometimes she’ll come through the animal area. She did stop to talk to me briefly when I was working in a small room and slowly shut the door behind her and gave me a smile and brief eye contact. That was a few weeks ago and I hope I haven’t waited too long. I only work there two days a week.

I’d like to ask her out but I’m not sure how to do it when we don’t interact much. I also don’t know if she’s single.

 

Ask her out for a coffee... It's not a date, if she's not interested/not single she'll simply say "no thanks" and you'll be no worse off.

 

Sounds good. I just hope I haven’t waited too long.

 

Has anyone here been accused of being flirty when you were just being yourself and having a friendly conversation?

 

I think a lot of people mistake kindness and friendliness for interest.

 

*Watches the calendar*

Oh no.

Apparently for a second date you can't just suggest meeting up again eventually. You actually have to ask for it and plan it an all.

Better luck next time I guess.

 

Life is unpredictable! Bonne courage!

 

Earning less than $30,000 a year is a 'deal breaker' for daters — CNBC

 

You and me both.



So how are all of these people getting together?
Alcohol.

 

It’s probably part of the equation lol

 

I don't get some of the assumptions of this article. If you are dating someone in their 30s who's a doctor there's a high probability that that person is in debt to school loans to the tune of 6 figures and may not pay off that loan into their 40s. Not that they can't still have a very comfortable life.