Enriquespy
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But are coffee dates in the morning ir the afternoon?
If a gal says she is interested in getting coffee with you, how many months is it ok to wait before you ask her out for that coffee?
Also, and more importantly:
At what time are coffee dates? Afternoon? lunch time? evening?
I dunno.
Hey, you're kind of cute. We should go out for bananas sometime.
Hey, you're kind of cute. We should go out for bananas sometime.
Of course she did. People generally don't make a habit of essentially asking you out if they don't want to get to know you better. The only things waiting does is to make her wonder if you were interested and create stress for you.My dudes.
She said yes.
Dating in your 40's is absolutely brutal my peeps. Never thought I would be here, yet here I am.
Of course she did. People generally don't make a habit of essentially asking you out if they don't want to get to know you better. The only things waiting does is to make her wonder if you were interested and create stress for you.
Now just keep her away from the Hype Lounge......we don't want her reading some of your posts.
EDIT: And don't forget the "dudettes". CC and MM in particular.
UPDATE! It ended up being rescheduled because of an unexpected job thing of hers. I think I'll try to see if she can again one of these weekends. I dunno if it's too soon or too late its, just been a month since.
Oh man.....that's harsh. When you said "job thing", I went to a big meeting or trip or something like that. Yeah, don't listen to me. In that case, I would just have said "Oh no. I'm really, really sorry to hear that. If you want to talk, just give me a ring." Man, I don't even know the person and I'm really sorry to hear that.We did talk about the thing!!!! Someone died! So that wasn't very a very date conductive chat as you can imagine.
Some closure for y'all:
The coffee thing happened!
It was a successful thing, as in getting to have a nice conversation and stuff.
I guess time will tell if anything comes out of it.
Thanks for all the tips.
Happy to hear it! If it was nice and pleasant, don't be afraid to plan another thing or express interest. She may be waiting to see what your next move is too, so don't wait too long yourself! All the best with it
Never, ever hold back from telling someone how much you enjoyed their company/conversation and let them know that you'd like to meet up again.Some closure for y'all:
The coffee thing happened!
It was a successful thing, as in getting to have a nice conversation and stuff.
I guess time will tell if anything comes out of it.
Thanks for all the tips.
Why not give a call? There are a lot of nice people out there who are just nice for the sake of being nice and I think showing up might be somewhat intimidating. I would probably just tell her that you appreciated her being so considerate and ask if she wanted to meet for coffee or something like that. I think she'd feel more comfortable in a non-face-to-face meeting.I just got a haircut from a really nice girl. She even gave a me a hair wash on the house. She even apologized a few times for not getting the door for me since someone had just called the shop. It’s been raining. I think I’ll go back and give her my number.
Or is that not a good thing to do in front of her coworkers and any potential customers?